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Speaking of old age, my wife and I are about to embark on the next...
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Speaking of old age, my wife and I are about to embark on the next...

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Apr 4, 2025, 5:51 PM
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.... stage of our lives.

We are both mid 70s (73 and 75). Both in very good health for our age. Next month we will be moving to a "Continuing Care Retirement Community." We will be among the youngest people there. (I attend a Bible Study there every week and they call me "the youngster.")

I won't go into great detail about why this is the best decision for us at this time.

But, I will tell you this is how my wife describes it:

"I'm going back to college. Got a great apartment close to everything, including the gym and the cafeteria. Got a great roommate. I've know him for over 50 years. We get along great. And, we have the same major. We're majoring in applied geriatrics."


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Apr 4, 2025, 5:58 PM
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when I was in college you could always get a soft serve ice cream cone at the dining hall. Can you do that there?

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The desserts are wonderful.

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:03 PM
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Pecan pie, banana pudding, chocolate cake are among the regulars. Ice Cream ia always available.

We have been warned that when we move in we will aquire "The Lakeview Fifteen." (As in 15 lbs gained.)

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:44 PM
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Good luck Bret. Let me know how this works out for yall.

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Apr 4, 2025, 8:58 PM [ in reply to The desserts are wonderful. ]
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I truly hope this works out really well for you and your bride. I don't think that would be something for me or my wife at our age bc we wouldn't do well with following the rules where someone other than us owning our home. We've gotten really use to not having any rules that apply us at our own home!!!

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:51 PM
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Bret, I hope you guys get settled in and enjoy the next phase of your life.

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:54 PM
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Sounds like you got a great plan and a good roommate.

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:57 PM
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I have replaced a roof this year and am replacing a water main this week, and I am envious.
I look forward to assisted living and sponge baths. I jest, but I am sure you are making a wise decision for you both. The important question for me is “how is the bartender?”

Go Tigers and Godspeed BretFSU.

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Apr 4, 2025, 6:57 PM
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Have known several people that have done the same and it has been a great experience for them. Best of luck to you and your wife. Have fun!!!

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Just a little word of explanation...

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Apr 4, 2025, 7:12 PM
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.... for those who aren't familiar with CCRC's.

For us now, it is like moving to a gated community. We live in a 2 bedroom unit similar to a condo. As our health fails, we will have whatever extra help we need. Short term physical therapy (in case of something like a broken ankle or knee). If we need more help they have things like independent living, assissted living and long term (what used to be called "nursing home") facilities.

I'm amazed how many of my friends have no idea of how these communities work. They consider them a "glorified nursing home" as one person told me.

Anyway, the only reason I posted this was because there was another thread on te board about old age and I just want to share my wife's comment about "majoring in applied geriatrics." I think that's hilarious.

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Apr 4, 2025, 8:52 PM
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Good luck Bret and Mrs Bret. Sounds like a great place. My wife and I are 77 and 78 and are still trying to keep up a house and each other.

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Apr 4, 2025, 9:09 PM
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Best of luck in this new chapter!

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Apr 4, 2025, 9:20 PM
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Best to you and your wife.

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Apr 4, 2025, 9:27 PM
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Good luck man!

Glad you and your wife are living y'all best lives!

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Apr 4, 2025, 9:42 PM
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My wife and I just put down a deposit on a soup to nuts home. Ie independent living to nursing care. We do not need it yet as we are 68 and 69 but the wait list is 5 years out. It is amazing the demand for this product. Best of luck in your new surroundings

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Apr 4, 2025, 10:08 PM
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Not far behind you. Love your major ‘Applied Geriatrics ‘ !

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