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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:04 AM
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Wish you the best MFO. You are a class guy who deserves a great female companion. She would be the lucky one in this relationship.
👍👍👍 for MFO 🐅
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:08 AM
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Go for it.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:08 AM
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Many years ago, I tried a dating site. Every woman I met was either BS crazy or desperate. My significant other is woman that I had known for years before we got together. Best way to go in my opinion. We are very happy.
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Ultimate Tiger [35763]
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You must have posted a screenshot of your big
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:16 AM
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bank account and 401k! 
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:48 AM
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What she said.
Sorry, it was just there for the taking.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 9:53 AM
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i made a good choice in the marriage dept so i dont regret a thing, but if i were young and single today, i do believe i would try to meet a girl at church. Nothing wrong with marrying a woman with a kind and biblical belief about marriage. ANd i swear, i think some of the best looking women are in church! just make sure you meet the ones with a loving conscience and not a bible thumper.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 10:06 AM
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Well. I think it’s a bot ploy to lure you back in. I was single up until around thirty. I stopped looking and that’s when I found my bride. 24 years later she’s my bff and love of my life all wrapped up in one. When your lady finally finds you, hang on! They’re hard to find and a treasure worth more than gold or gems. Good luck brother!
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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I once met the most attractive...26 years younger than me...blonde from "Greenwood". On our second email she "...could't stop herself..." from professing her love for me. She declared she would be leaving Africa soon (where she was doing Mission Work with children) to come back home to visit me and introduce me to her family.
Wouldn't you just know it! On her way to the airport to fly home someone robbed and beat her and she woke up in a hospital. She had spent her last dollars on a non-refundable plane ticket. Now, she needed to "borrow" $975 for a plane ticket along with $2250 for the hospital because they would not let her leave until she paid in full. She "hated" to ask but all of her credit cards were stolen as well.
Now, I can accept that a hot babe, 26 years younger than me, could fall for me just from reading my words. That's every day in my life. And I can accept that she was in Africa working with children. And I can even acept that she was beaten and robbed on the way to profess her love for me. BUT WHAT I COULDN'T ACCEPT...was that someone that pretty could be from Greenwood. THAT was the Red Flag!
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TigerNet Immortal [176538]
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yep....one sent me her email address and then started asking for money
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:10 AM
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to give her five-year-old son a birthday party. Said she showed him my picture, and he wants me to be his daddy. She kept asking for money for a present. I told her I'd meet her somewhere and give him a present and some money for his party, . She couldn't meet me but said I can send her some money through paypal and/or venmo. Knew from the get-go, she was a scammer.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 10:46 AM
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I would save my money and feel good knowing that a lot of women wanted me lol
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Hall of Famer [8310]
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absolutely sign up and give them the money
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:09 AM
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if things dry up again. you can also unsubscribe. wait for the blurred matches and messages and just re subscribe.
that's actually my favorite feature of their application. It keeps me hooked and eager to hand over the money. something about the game-ification
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TigerNet Immortal [176538]
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I found it funny that I hardly had many hits. But once I dropped my
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:12 AM
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subscription, I started getting hits left and right. I guess that is their way to "lure" me back in. That was the whole point of the post.
I'm not going back. To many fakes and scammers.
NIKE
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you're telling me that I've been hooked and throwing my money away
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:38 AM
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lol
and yeah. These software companies sure know what they're doing
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:21 AM
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Tinder
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:26 AM
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I would try Match in your situation. Google Match.com coupons and you will easily get 45% off. Use the browse for free option before you sign up and see if there are women to your liking.
I suggest you play poor and develop some screening questions for the first date or even during conversation. Ask them if we landed on the moon or talk about Bigfoot. Vaccines are another subject where conspiracy theorists will self identify. I think you get the idea. Develop your own screening process for the flavor of nut you want to screen out. Good luck 👍🏻
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:31 AM
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Find an older woman. They usually have a house and a checking account.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:39 AM
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eHarmony wouldn't send you fake women. They really don't even want your money, but they don't want to insult you by not asking for it. They really just want you to find love. It's pure altruism.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 11:52 AM
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Just join Linkedin. I get pictures and messages of gorgeous girls, wearing thongs, all the time. For some reason, they are under the impression I'm a stud. However; job notifications come along rarely.
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I've found that if I use a pic of
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Jun 21, 2025, 12:38 PM
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Zayn Malik or John Krasinski, I get more likes.
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Game Changer [1835]
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 12:48 PM
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Use the free ones. Plenty of Fish, OK Cupid. It’s been 10+ years but I actually met multiple nice and attractive women on those. (Been married to one of them for 7 years now) 
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 4:14 PM
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Be careful. The app knows you aren't a member and is probably sending fake stuff to get you to join again. Once you pay boom! They gone. Hope you find someone but please be careful. Lots of cstfishing going on!
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Jun 21, 2025, 4:32 PM
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Maybe try wedding crashing or if things get really bad maybe funeral crashing, it worked in the movie. JK. I would be the last person to give dating advice. I met my wife in H.S. She was a freshman and me a sophomore. Got married after college and happily married since 1980 have a set of twins 31 and a daughter 38 and 3
grandkids. Life is good! Good luck to you!
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 5:04 PM
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Ha ha! Sounds 'plenty of fishy' to me...
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Jun 21, 2025, 5:42 PM
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a member, no one seemed interested in me at all. But MAN!! When I dropped my membership, the women just started coming after me. Naturally, their pictures were blurred but I kept getting notifications of "Likes" and women checking out my profile and sending me messages. However, I couldn't read them by not being a paid member. Most must have noticed I wasn't a paying member because when I clicked on the notification, their profile was deleted. I'm thinking about joining again and paying $25-$35/month since all of these women are now finding me attractive and interesting. What do you all think? "> "> "> "> Go Tigers!!!
a member, no one seemed interested in me at all. But MAN!! When I dropped my membership, the women just started coming after me. Naturally, their pictures were blurred but I kept getting notifications of "Likes" and women checking out my profile and sending me messages. However, I couldn't read them by not being a paid member. Most must have noticed I wasn't a paying member because when I clicked on the notification, their profile was deleted. I'm thinking about joining again and paying $25-$35/month since all of these women are now finding me attractive and interesting. What do you all think? "> "> "> "> Go Tigers!!!
Sign with a specialized attorney and launch a class action suit. In addition to a bit of money, your name will be in some archives
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 6:15 PM
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Try Christian mingle if it's still around.
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TigerNet Immortal [176538]
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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Jun 21, 2025, 8:37 PM
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Agree. A Christian lady is the way to go.
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You could start your own dating service. My dad started Com-pata -date in like early 80s and Southern Christian Singles c club before all these dating sites were a thing
He always had a big supply of beautiful, interesting women that he obtained by his insiders info lol
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U2 Smart fo dat.***
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Clemson Icon [27795]
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Some years ago, I got tired off increasing cell phone bills after
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receiving a reduction by a provider.
So, I went into a Walmart, bought a cheap $25 flip phone, signed up for $25 monthly service, then called my original provider and told them to discontinue my account. Holy Moly, if those folks didn't go into freak out mode, as I had had that account a good while. They promptly served me on up to some sooper dooper pooper scooper top exec, who said, "Well, we can give you the same." That pisssed me off further, so I told him they should have offered it in the first place and to cancel the account.
For a long while afterwards, I received numerous mailings with similar offers from those people, which I promptly trashed. SOB's knew all along I wanted cheaper service, which they had but wouldn't offer.
Your situation is similar IMO, and why you are receiving the B.S. messages. Hence, why I'd ignore them...and take up the old-fashioned way of womanizing: barhopping! LOL..........By the way, I still have that old flip phone with its $25 monthly bill. Only problem it's so old, it has a rotary dial, and you have to call the operator to place a call! Most of the time it sits in my car shut off, me having it there in case I have a flat and need to call AAA.
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Re: I joined eHarmony several years ago and boy did I get off to quick. While I was
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I joined a site called Zoosk years ago and dated a few on there. Most seemed pretty serious type folks with solid backgrounds, and fun to talk to. I did quickly learn that a few profile pictures, which looked great, did not give a true indicator of what they looked like in real life. Their faces were great but a few I met had huge bodies. Still fun to talk with but not anyone I would have been interested in long term. Lot of them was in the same boat I was, recently divorced. At my age they have all been divorced or wanting to cheat on their spouse. I wish you luck. She is out there!
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Most women these days NEVER have a man with the balls to walk up and start a conversation with them. Walk up, say an observation about them, what they’re doing, tell them they’re beautiful and that you’re not one to let moments pass, so you’d kick yourself if you didn’t come over to say hello. She’ll look you over. You need to be well-dressed and hopefully you’re in the gym fit for your age. She’ll know if took courage to come over and talk to her. You’ll be off to a good start…
If she has a boyfriend… say he’s lucky. If she’s married… joke “happily?” then say he’s lucky. If she starts talking back, you’re in. Expect you should carry most of the conversation for 5 more minutes, then, ask for her number and meet for a coffee later or something. A short meetup to get to know each other better. Then excuse yourself because you have somewhere to go that’s important.
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