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Made my decision on the vaccine
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Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 8:53 AM
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After speaking with an expert in the field - no, not a politician, not a celebrity, not a member of the media, and no "friends who know a guy" or people online - my personal physician.

He listened to my concerns, answered my questions honestly and logically, gave me sound illustrations and showed me incontrovertible figures, and most importantly, he didn't tell me what to do, he didn't demean me for not having gotten the vax yet, he didn't pressure me or shame me. He simply presented the facts, gave his opinions, and left the decision up to me.

This is how it should be, and why I posted last week that I think - and my doctor agreed, as did the nurse I spoke with - that if politicians, celebrities, the media, and Holiday Inn Express experts would stay out of this and leave it up to the medical experts, then I think more people would have gotten the vaccine. As it stands, no one likes being pressured, no one likes being shamed, and no one likes being forced to do something. For many of us, it just raises our opposition and makes us question the mandate at hand.

So after speaking with my doctor, a trained, educated physician, who treated me with respect and as an intelligent and responsible individual, I have decided to get the vaccine, as has my wife. I understand it's no panacea and I could still get COVID, but I also understand that if I do, the chances of it being severe are far less. To me, it's a more reasonable gamble to get the vaccine, than to not get it and wish I had.

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BE NICE TO ME SO I WON'T KILL SOMEBODY***


Sep 16, 2021, 8:54 AM
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I like your funny words magic man


Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 9:08 AM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2021/09/persuade-unvaccinated-protect-unvaccinated/620091/


I'm glad you and your wife have made this decision. The Atlantic magazine article, no right wing magazine for sure, supports the idea that you "get more bees with honey than vinegar." I found it interesting that the article stated only about 8% of people are hard core, come #### or high water anti-vaxxers.

To get more people on board requires a calm nonjudgmental approach. I must say, I too am frustrated that it's taking so long to get folks to sign up, but I also believe forcing people to do something will backfire.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 9:27 AM
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I still get ticked off at all the divisiveness and blame that goes around. I read an article just this morning about a lady who was vaccinated, got COVID and died. In the obit, her family blame the unvaccinated for killing her. There is absolutely NO basis for that. Just as a vaccinated person can catch COVID, a vaccinated person can spread COVID. It's not a one-way ticket.

I heard a good analogy of the vaccines - it's like a bullet proof vest. It doesn't mean you won't get shot, and if you do get shot that you won't get hurt or even die. Getting shot while wearing a bullet-proof vest can still hurt and even break ribs, but it greatly minimizes the chance of major injury or getting killed. The vaccine isn't much different. But what people fail to realize is that while it's not 100% at protecting you from catching it, it's also not 100% at keeping you from spreading it. It does minimize both, but it definitely doesn't eliminate either.

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It's a hospital crisis of the unvaccinated


Sep 16, 2021, 9:55 AM [ in reply to Re: Made my decision on the vaccine ]
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Morgue and funeral home crisis of the unvaccinated too.

Which makes it still a pandemic for everyone. Get in a bad car wreck, it's a crisis for you to get medical care, because of the unvaccinated.

The idea is get everyone vaccinated, then forget about it. This is what England, Singapore, Denmark, Israel, and others are doing, because they have far more people vaccinated. The math says that would work, but it takes everyone getting a vaccine. Vaccines break the rate of hospitalizations and deaths from cases, they don't stop transmission or the virus, and nothing will. In highly vaccinated countries they are not even looking at cases anymore. They're just following hospitals. The math isn't there yet for us in the US, and it is really ticking off some people, understandably. But this isn't explained to people by those promoting the vaccines, instead they're using bad tactics. They're misrepresenting the vaccines, and have really since Trump did it on day 1. And they're continuing. Just read an internal CDC memo on a study of vaccine effectiveness. It decreased with delta. Fine. It still held up though where it counts, in hospitalizations. But the memo (not released btw) was more geared towards how to change their already wrong message to another wrong message, and keep people from thinking they don't work.

How about being honest about it. Covid is here, and will be around forever. Vaccines won't end it. You WILL end up getting it, and at that point your future depends on if you had a vaccine, covid before and recovered, or not. If you are in that last category, delta is far more deadly, and far more likely to land you in a hospital.

If I ran the show I'd explain all of this, then I'd say here's the math. Set a number. If 80% of people are vaccinated, we can and will forget about it. Before delta that number would have been 60-70%. Your kid will get top notch treatment if they're in a wreck, your husband will get that emergency surgery and ICU care from that accident at work. Your cancer treatments and surgeries will continue on schedule. No one will require masks, or vaccine passports, and life will go back to normal. This is what they are doing, with success so far, in highly vaccinated places. England has higher cases per capita than the US, and their hospitals are not beyond capacity and are nothing like ours in the southern US. Same in Denmark. Same in Israel. They're not even looking at cases, just hospitals. But we never got to the levels of vaccinated people needed to do what we need to do.

And it's bad leadership, period. All of our problems stem from that.

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Re: It's a hospital crisis of the unvaccinated


Sep 16, 2021, 11:44 AM
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Yes the messaging has been screwed up from the get go. I think Madison Avenue could have come up with some ads promoting just what you've well stated, but instead we continue to get very poor messaging that does very little to change minds.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 9:11 AM
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Yes...he had to baby you. He had to be careful. That said, in his role, thats the way to do it. He is a professional.

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No, not baby me at all


Sep 16, 2021, 9:23 AM
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He simply had to respect me.

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Re: No, not baby me at all


Sep 16, 2021, 9:28 AM
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At this stage in the game after all we know it is pretty much having to baby someone just in case....not necessarily you, but all skeptics. It has become so nuts that they have to baby people that are worried. Anyway, thats pretty cool that you have such an open mind and listen to your doctor. There are people.attacking nurses and doctors verbally and every now and then physically because of conspiracy or political theory that they have locked on to about a simple vaccine.

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The first thing he said to me was


Sep 16, 2021, 9:40 AM
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"I wish this hadn't become so politicized."

It's pretty much a fact that the majority of those who are not vaccinated are conservative Republicans, but as we've seen with Nikki Minaj (pretty sure she's not a conservative Republican) there are those who aren't who are not getting the vax. I can't help but wonder that if Trump had been re-elected if we'd be having this issue to this same degree. I know he's been encouraging the vaccine, but I'm pretty sure he wouldn't be mandating it and relentlessly pushing it like the Biden administration has been doing. It's ironic that so many Trump supporters oppose the vaccine, yet it was under his administration that these vaccines were developed and released.

If you can separate the politics from it - which is difficult to do - then I think it's pretty much a no-brainer, but it's become so tainted with all of the politics and media spin and social media shaming, that it creates it's own resistance as a result.

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Re: The first thing he said to me was


Sep 16, 2021, 10:10 AM
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Honestly, the muh freedumb crowd couldn’t care less about Trump. They use him as an excuse. They think he’ll let them get away with stupid stuff but they don’t really care what he thinks about most things.

IMO

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People don't trust the government.


Sep 16, 2021, 10:28 AM [ in reply to The first thing he said to me was ]
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Can't say I blame them. I don't either. I make it a point to consume international news as much as possible these days. In many places it's like we used to have in the US. In most places the virus isn't politicized like it is here. We politicize everything in the US, and that's why no one trusts the government. There's ALWAYS someone in a position of leadership who is more than willing to tell you what you want to hear, for your vote. Doesn't mean they're telling the truth. Doesn't mean they're being honest. It simply means they're telling you what you want to hear. And what you want to hear is not always what's right, real, or in your best interest. Takes some humility to know that.

I do investigations for a living. I approach each case with no preconceived assumptions, and have absolutely zero agenda other than learning the truth. ZERO. People have such a difficult time understanding that. It would be easy to tell the insurance company what they want to hear, I mean they ARE paying me. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. But as tempting as it is to tell my customer what they want, or would like to hear, I tell then the truth. Sometimes my job would be easier telling my customer what they want to hear, but I do it the same no matter what. And the oddest thing happens.....they respect that. Guy was a Baptist preacher, married for 40 years, and has 2.3 grown children......there's a temptation to think it's simple. It is usually, but not always. Likewise, someone is a crackhead, deadbeat dad, been in jail a bunch, you think the investigation will be hard(er). Usually is, but not always. People always tell me what I want to hear. I don't judge them for what they tell me. I get asked "Do they appear honest? Do you think they're telling the truth?" Hate it when lawyers ask me that. I tell them I have no clue, but you will know the truth when I'm done.

The key is to seek out a "disinterested third party". Someone who knows the information without a dog in the fight. Someone with no interest. If you have two people telling you two different things, and you know someone is lying (maybe they don't get along, or want money...maybe a vote?????), seek out a third party, that friend, that neighbor, (your doctor) and you can always hash out the truth. Same applies in being informed. I know I can turn on Fox News and get one set of information on covid, and then CNN will give me another take. Why bother. Go watch BBC, and read news in Israel, Germany, Spain, Italy, Singapore, Australia, India, South Africa, Brazil, Japan, and you become informed and in doing that you depoliticize the virus. When you see a covid study from Singapore, then one from Australia, then one from Brazil, then one from South Africa, then one from England, then one from Japan, then one from India, and they all say the same basic thing, and then you see the CDC saying something different......and then the CDC finally does the very first US study, then changes their policy or recommendations because it shows the same thing other studies across the planet show, that doesn't instill trust, and that's our problem.

I stopped watching cable news many years ago. I don't use Facebook other than for the neighborhood group, church, scouts, etc. I only use Twitter to seek out foreign sources of information and keep up with local news. I read the headlines. I waste zero time on talking heads. If you follow politics on social media, or on cable TV, you are poisoning yourself. You are going to be misinformed, and it doesn't matter if you watch Fox News, or Watch CNN. And social media is even worse.

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Re: No, not baby me at all


Sep 16, 2021, 9:39 AM [ in reply to No, not baby me at all ]
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So mean tweets - bad and counterproductive. Respect - good and productive. What a concept.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 10:05 AM
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The problem is that you didn’t start with your Dr.

Why pay attention to all the noise in the first place? I personally never take any health advise from Facebook, politicians or the media…that’s my Dr’s job.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 10:43 AM
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I think like a lot of people, I thought we'd weathered the storm after the spring, when things started loosening up. Then we started hearing about the rise in cases and hospitals getting full and the contrast in admissions between vax'd and unvax'd. That's what made me start thinking seriously about it and why I did go to my doctor first.

One thing that struck me, from our conversation, was the rapidity with which this thing is evolving. He said that if COVID had the same life cycle as other viruses, then we'd have a better chance at getting to herd immunity naturally. But it's changing from one variant to another that that's not the option it would otherwise be. That was a factor in my decision as well.

I asked him that if you looked at it purely through science and numbers, and discarded the human element, and you said we'll just let it work it's way through society and do what it's going to do and let our bodies do what they're going to do, would it not eventually die off? He said that due to the rapid nature with which it's mutating from one variant to the next, that no, that wouldn't happen like it would with other viruses. And the big problem with it now is how it's overwhelming hospital resources. My doc is a family practitioner and has been for decades. He's around my age (51) and said that for the first time in many, many years, he's doing hospital work, just because the demand is so high. He has patients that should be in the hospital, but can't be because there aren't the beds (at least not here in the Greenville area). All of that was pretty persuasive.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 10:40 AM
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Good to hear about your decision, and yes ideally this should be the case.

One issue we need to overcome, is the actual privilege you have in seeing a doctor who will take the time to speak with you on this. Tens of millions of people don't have this luxury.

Plus the politicization at the start of Covid has unfortunately cast this into the situation we are in today.

Trump's natural inclination, as a business leader to downplay bad news, was the wrong choice in this situation. And this is where political experience is necessary and his lack of experience has ultimately hurt us.

We will get through this eventually, but it will be a slog

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Good luck.***


Sep 16, 2021, 10:48 AM
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Who's a good boy? Who's a good boy? You are, yes you are


Sep 16, 2021, 10:59 AM
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Good boy, good boy!!!



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Well, the key is you made the effort


Sep 16, 2021, 11:41 AM
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And that is half the battle.

My sense is that many people who still haven't been vaccinated are not necessarily avoiding it for political reasons, but because they have just not made it a priority. They are not typically proactive about their health. They will ignore a lurking issue until it manifests itself in a way that you have no choice but to do something about it.

I won't go to the doctor unless I am either injured or in pain. I think I have gone to a doctor only twice in the last ten years. I don't do physical exams. I don't go based on the calendar.

I didn't rush out to get the vaccine either because of this laissez faire attitude. Maybe that was selfish on my part, because I mistakenly believed that I was in control and felt I would be aware enough to know whether or not I should self-quarantine. Unfortunately, this theory doesn't really work in the population at large and is probably 99% of the reason why these bugs are still lingering out there.

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Re: Well, the key is you made the effort


Sep 16, 2021, 11:49 AM
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I rarely go either, but get a sinus or upper respiratory infection about once a year (I have asthma, so am more susceptible to these things, even though I run over 25 miles a week and am in otherwise very good health). Those infections take forever to go away on their own, so I go to get a little help in getting rid of them and asked him about the vaccine while I was there.

After that, the only reason I could think of not to get it was "I don't think I need it," but that's a heckuva gamble these days, especially being over 50 and with asthma and occasional respiratory issues. Thankfully, I haven't had it yet (to my knowledge), and I know that 98% or so of the people who get it have no major issues with it, but that other 2% or whatever - when it's bad, it's very, very bad. I don't need to risk that, for me or for my family.

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Re: Made my decision on the vaccine


Sep 16, 2021, 8:50 PM
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