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Nov 3, 2025, 11:19 AM
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So YeahBudddy has bitten off a little more than he can chew here.

Things are going well with heiress. I went out to her property yesterday and she cooked me supper and took care of my other needs as I did her. We get along great but I don't know if it's long term goals. She has too much self-doubt and need for reassurance and it's starting to get to me. Heiress doesn't know about Red. Heiress is a 6.5 but has money and is really makes up for it in other areas.

In the midst of all this, Red has been sending nonstop snapchats trying to rekindle our Waffle House date nights. Red doesn't know about heiress. Red is a 7.5 but is just A LOT to deal with.

And then here's the kicker. The girl I met in San Diego back in August '24 is making a trip to SC specifically to hang for a weekend. This happens in December. I'm taking her to Charleston, have a Air BnB booked, with no plan for how to approach this with the other two. This chick doesn't know about the other two. San Diego girl is an 8, but a little bit of a prude so I'm taking a gamble here.

I gotta figure out a way to sort all this without being left with my #### in my hand. Work with my logic here:

1) Ghost red - we had our fun. I'll pass her off to Tharealdonjuan
2) Continuing seeing where thing with heiress. Make a decision on my intentions by November 15.
3) If continuing with heiress, cancel trip with San Diego girl. If not, proceed.

I'm really working my way back full circle to the realization that getting my #### wet really might not be worth all this. This is becoming like a little side hustle.

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Pregnancy scare girl is

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:20 AM
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apparently not pregnant and only reached out in early September to say "you dodged a bullet with me" only for me to say "Yeah..."

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Did you and Heiress have the talk about exclusivity?

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:22 AM
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If not, then avoid that talk until after San Diego girl weekend.

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That was my original thought, and I could probably

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:25 AM
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swing this if she weren't already broaching the "What are we?!?!" conversation 7 weeks out :(

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"We're exploring what this could be, and honestly, I really like exploring with

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:27 AM
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you.”

“I think we’re two people really enjoying getting to know each other, and I’m loving where it’s going.”

Either of those I think would keep working for the delay.

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You're so emotionally mature it makes me sick

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:33 AM
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🥰

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I mean, I went with my Heiress, so godspeed friend :)***

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:36 AM
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Cole @ Beach Cole w/ Clemson Hat


I got you twin.

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:22 AM
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From experience, I'd say unless you are reasonably sure one of them is "the one" or if you want one to be "the one" then carry on as you are.

If "the one", I guess cut the others off.

If not (and this is what it sounds like), keep moving about the cabin as you have.

Otherwise you ghost Red and cancel San Diego trip, then heiress dips on you or you kick her to the curb and yes....you end up with your PEN15 in your hand and starting anew.

Either way, please DO send red this way kthx.

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This is good advice.

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:12 PM
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First I’d get rid of red regardless. Keep things going w the heiress.

If you feel she is the one at some point then cut off all others to give her a fair shake. It doesn’t work juggling other women bc one typically thinks w their little head over their big head.
My wife and I had the discussion to give things a fair shot after a few weeks and in doing that we agreed to hide our dating profiles and just focus on our relationship.

4 years later we are still together and I still get head whenever I want bc she is amazing. Most women cut off the blow jobs all the time once they get comfortable. You gotta find one that won’t.

HTH’s

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first off

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:25 AM
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can't make any sound decisions w/out visual evidence

second - cut red, go heiress lead w/ SD chick on 2-deep. start crootin for a back up after she leaves.

running 3 consumes more than it's worth.

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WHY CAN'T YOU JUST PICK ONE AND BE MISERABLE LIKE A REAL AMERICAN WOULD??!?!!?***

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:26 AM
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Re: WHY CAN'T YOU JUST PICK ONE AND BE MISERABLE LIKE A REAL AMERICAN WOULD??!?!!?***

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:28 AM
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FMK

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:26 AM
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F - San Diego 8
M - Heiress 6.5 with $$$
K - Red Waffle House crazy 7.5

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100

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:28 AM
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winner winner chicken dinner

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WHERE ARE PIGS!?!?!

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:31 AM
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But seriously... thanks for pulling through all the other times.

I would have a hard time answering because my goal for dating would be to find one to marry. If there is one that you would be considering, cut the others.

If not, gamble as you see fit. But be mindful that heiress may have the means to cause you problems. Like lawsuit the crap out of you. It doesnt matter if you did anything illegal or not, if she has the means, she could just make life miserable for you.

You hear of large companies doing this to small ones all the time... just bring lawsuits until the smaller one folds.

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6.5 with money is happy marriage material.

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:32 AM
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6.5 is right in the sweet spot with lasting natural beauty and none of the personality hang-ups of 8+.

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drunk at the putt putt.


I am not disagreeing... I dont know if Buddddddddy does though.***

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:33 AM
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6.5 is sort of a two-face is my deal

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:36 AM [ in reply to 6.5 with money is happy marriage material. ]
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Looks great gussied up. Not so much without the help. Has some tomboyish tendencies. And she prefers to be non-gussied up most of the time. Soi am rarely as attracted to her as I am the others.

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Re: 6.5 is sort of a two-face is my deal

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:42 AM
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Sounds like she’s both low maintenance and her daddy has money? What are we even discussing here anymore? Does her daddy have hunting land?

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Hundreds of acres, a club, and

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:00 PM
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Her parents live up the hill in what used to be a lodge. It looks like. 5500 sq/ft compound

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Re: Hundreds of acres, a club, and

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:07 PM
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Tuck your shirt in when you have dinner w her parents and call him sir

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:24 PM [ in reply to Hundreds of acres, a club, and ]
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And that family will absorb you into their clan and you’ll improve your own life and the fortunes of your blood line

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thread's over

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:38 PM
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how old is she? squirt some babies up there man

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Yep. Low drama, money, and cooks for you? And probably can get after it?

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:45 AM [ in reply to 6.5 with money is happy marriage material. ]
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Jump on that.

When you hit 40s and 50s, that's gold.

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Who knew a 37 year old

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:02 PM
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Drunk like me could be so shallow

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I mean... I've ridden that ride.***

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:25 PM
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Yeah, it's weird

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:48 PM [ in reply to WHERE ARE PIGS!?!?! ]
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My tmail inbox is still empty

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MauldinT, where are you???


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Nov 3, 2025, 11:44 AM
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Drawing assumptions from your thread...

Red is extra crazy and she WILL find out about the others. She'll find a way. Girls like that smell other women from across the country.

Once that happens, they'll all unite and turn on you.

So option 1 is smart.

Heiress can always make up for 6.5; people change. But everyone eventually goes sub-5 at some point. But if she cooks for you and takes care of you and has money and she's looking for someone to love her, AND where she makes up for it is in the bedroom, this is a pretty good option. You could live happy for a while.

San Diego girl doesn't sound like a risk with above if you and heiress haven't locked down as serious. It's worth a spin.

But beware of Red. She can bring all of it crashing down.

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:47 AM
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I agree the redhead is going to ruin his life

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Girls like that won't just solo crush you

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Nov 3, 2025, 11:49 AM
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They'll enlist the other women to help as well.

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Man, y'all acting like all redheads be crazy

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:46 PM [ in reply to Re: Need help from ]
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It's true



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MauldinT, where are you???


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Nov 3, 2025, 11:54 AM
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IE Rents


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Nov 3, 2025, 12:06 PM
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Can the heiress 6.5 have work done to get to mid 7?

To me, that one is the longterm play, just kinda verify this aint no Madoff type family bizz. Make sure no legal contracts to be signed, etc...

Having said that, the relationship is just really starting to blossom and its true beauty will be recognized with patience....tell her that so you can dip to San Diago whales ####### girl.

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that last bit, though

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:20 PM
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I'd like to weigh in

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:26 PM
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Well actually I'd like 6.5 to weigh in. Whatever it is now has to be significantly more once you've settled down, so make sure you take this into account

Where is this relationship now? "I don't know but I really care about you" perhaps? Don't get painted into a corner by her yet

Red: already proved she's crazy, need to move on

San Diego: what's the upside here, she lives in CA? She flies in, you banger, then she's back on a plane to the West Coast? Sounds like a short term win. Get the right answer from heiress, get some new from SD, then report back to us on which polishes knobs the best

HTH

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Re: I'd like to weigh in

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:32 PM
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Here she is weighin after I knocked the bottom of it yesterday:



She wants me for my body so might not be wifey material

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There you go again, talking about a wife.***

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Nov 3, 2025, 3:53 PM
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Re: Need help from

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Nov 3, 2025, 12:52 PM
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Tell the SD girl to cancel her trip. Pay for her plane ticket if you have to.

Take the girl whose daddy has money & land to Charleston for that weekend.

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Nov 3, 2025, 1:03 PM
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4. Its probably time you switch to the men because of your track record recently.

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Track record of banging ###### and spreading

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:27 PM
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my seeed and confusion? Why would I switch?

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Ditch the heiress. If you're not attracted to her at her wurst

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Nov 3, 2025, 1:49 PM
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it aint worth it.

Tail red she's only there for 1 thing, and 1 thing only. Make her repeat it to you. Then, as Juvenile puts it: bite the tiddies, get the head, break the bed. Pull off the rubber and bust a nut on her leg.


Then carve out San Diego an extra inch in her slurge.

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dude, this is disgusting

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Nov 3, 2025, 1:54 PM
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-ly awesome.

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Re: Ditch the heiress. If you're not attracted to her at her wurst

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:23 PM [ in reply to Ditch the heiress. If you're not attracted to her at her wurst ]
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Would Red and San Diago girl be down for a 3sum?

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:28 PM
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I briefly considered this, but if San Diego is flying accross the US of A

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:44 PM [ in reply to Re: Ditch the heiress. If you're not attracted to her at her wurst ]
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she's obviously there for a weekend of worshiping YeahBudddy's meatstick. It should be a really good time for him. I wouldn't jeapordize this with the possibility of a 3 way.

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What you aren't considering is that they may be also in it for the

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Nov 3, 2025, 2:34 PM
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good times and nothing more.

I say get all three of them pregnant and see what happens from there. At least one of them will HAVE to take you in.

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I feel like I'm kinda reading the plot of last season's Always Sunny

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Nov 3, 2025, 3:44 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqTGoiB5-Nw

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