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Oculus Spirit [75719]
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I'm one and done. And done anyway. She'll lawyer up.
Dec 10, 2019, 12:00 PM
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Finished reading it and yup. She'll lawyer up.
I see this crap ALL THE TIME. You would think men would learn.
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Oculus Spirit [75719]
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That the 15% was ever talked about would be
Dec 10, 2019, 12:04 PM
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reason enough for me to tell her to hit the bricks.
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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I was talking to a freinds friends last week who is getting
Dec 10, 2019, 12:07 PM
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married. He's and older guy (late 40's) and a while into the conversation I asked if he was ready to give half of everything he has ever earned to someone he hates. He got pretty mad at me about it, but its a sound question that more people need to srsly consider before they get married. I guess when you're young and don't have anything, it doesn't matter. But later, when that changes...it does. A lot.
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Oculus Spirit [79429]
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Wonder if it would make sense to just live it up if you
Dec 10, 2019, 12:38 PM
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knew divorce was inevitable. Max out some credit cards, buy a sweet boat, car, whatever. I figured splitting debt is a lot better than splitting assets.
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Oculus Spirit [75719]
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Man, I'd go all Brewster's Millions if I had money
Dec 10, 2019, 12:41 PM
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and thought a divorce was heading my way.
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Oculus Spirit [79429]
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I think I would too, I mean if I'm going to get fugged
Dec 10, 2019, 12:44 PM
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I'm going to make sure she does too. No way in hell I could be one of those guys living like a college student while my ex wife continues living it up on my dime. I honestly don't see how dudes in that situation don't just snap and go all killdozer on the ex.
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Oculus Spirit [97724]
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I'd invest in a good lawyer. And before that a good PI
Dec 10, 2019, 12:54 PM
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I mean if you're going to blow your money, might as well do it with a chance you keep it.
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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Even if you find her cheating, all you get to keep is
Dec 10, 2019, 1:23 PM
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alimony. Does nothing for the half of the stuff you already paid for.
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Oculus Spirit [75719]
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Then don't pay for more than half of that.***
Dec 10, 2019, 1:24 PM
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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lulz..yeah.
Dec 10, 2019, 1:26 PM
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I like having electric, water, and a place to sleep.
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Oculus Spirit [75719]
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If you didn't split this stuff down the middle
Dec 10, 2019, 1:33 PM
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from day one of cohabitation that is on you.
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I'm not OK with the living situation required to do that***
Dec 10, 2019, 1:47 PM
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I guess every situation is different.
Dec 10, 2019, 3:42 PM
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But if things go south you may end up living in some dilapidated joint anyway.
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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I got to talking to a lawyer at the Southern one day...
Dec 10, 2019, 1:25 PM
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he said that in Mt Plastic, in about 90% of the divorces he handles, the couple argues over who gets the debt--not the assets. When the party is over, nobody wants to pay the bill I guess.
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was it Lewis Grizzard who said.......
Dec 10, 2019, 12:41 PM
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"Instead of getting married again, I'm just going to find a woman I hate and buy her a house."
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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Rod Stewart said it, too***
Dec 10, 2019, 12:49 PM
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I didn't know how bad it had gotten until I saw
Dec 10, 2019, 12:52 PM
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a license plate on I-285 saying "Honk if you've been married to Lewis Grizzard"
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in the words ofi believe it was fred sanford: "shack up,
Dec 10, 2019, 8:32 PM
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that way you can pack up. don't f### up and marry or you won't have anything to pack up."
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