A parent's point of view


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A parent's point of view

CLEMSON – Clemson football fans are watching the rumors of a potential conference switch with an interested eye, the possibilities of new rivalries, new stadiums to visit and an influx of cash are just a few of the reasons that some fans give for wanting to switch.

Another group that watches the proceedings closely are the parents of Clemson commitments and prospects, many of whom are left wondering what impact a move of that magnitude might have on their children.

TigerNet spoke with the parent of a Clemson commitment, who contacted our site with concerns about the rumors, and agreed to give a parent’s point of view on the situation with the caveat we not use his name for fear of potential backlash.

The parent said that he sat down and took a look at the distances between Clemson and the rest of the Big 12 schools, and immediately realized that road trips to watch his son play simply wouldn’t be a possibility.

“We wouldn’t go. We sat down and looked at this analytically, and other than West Virginia, the closest school to Clemson in the Big 12 is TCU,” the parent said. “That is 16 hours away in a car. That is the closest drive. And we all know that with airline prices being what they are - and us being in the middle class - we would only be able to travel to one away game or maybe two in a 13 or 14 game season.

“That is not as many as compared to if Clemson stayed in the ACC. You can drive to North Carolina, you can drive to Duke, you can drive to Wake Forest, and you can drive to Georgia Tech and schools like that. You can drive to all of those places. I talked to some of my friends that have sons that play Division I ball, and they say that would be a hindrance in terms of travel for them. They told me, ‘Best of luck in going to Clemson and watching them play all over the country.’ If you stay in the ACC, that isn’t a problem.”

He said that as the parent of a son who has gone through the recruiting process, he knows that such a move would hurt recruiting in the long run and that opposing coaches would use that to their advantage.

“That would absolutely hurt recruiting,” he said. “Being a parent who has lived through the recruiting process, you have to make a decision with that in mind. We are moving closer to Clemson so we can watch our son play and because we want to be a part of his life. We live our lives for our children first, and we have not missed any recitals or any athletic events. We don’t want that to start now, and we knew that we weren’t going to let where we work or live restrict us.”

As a result, moving closer to Clemson would only help for the home games if Clemson were to move.

“We were going to relocate because we wanted to see him play more,” he said. “There are a lot of parents that I know like that. But if their kid is going to be playing a lot of games outside of their region or locale, then that becomes a burden and a hindrance. It would make you rethink some things.”

The parent said that he has already taken a look at the logistics of playing a late night game out in current Big 12 country, and he wonders how it would affect his son’s academic performance.

“You know that if you play a night game out there, you are going to lose an hour on the way home, and then you aren’t going to get back to Clemson until three or four in the morning,” he said. “And these young men are already tired, and maybe they’ve lost a football game. They will want to get their rest and sleep a good bit of the day. But they also have homework and maybe meetings with the team on Sunday. So that day is shot. You may or may not fall behind.”

He said he understands the allure of more money for a university is a valid argument for moving, and he just hopes that the powers that be make the right choice.

“I understand the role that money plays in all of this,” he said. “You have to do what is best for the university. I hope they put the money back into the school, and not just in athletics. But at the same time, there has to be a concern for the players themselves and the impact on their lives as students. And also the impact it has on the fan base in general.”

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B-Meist®
spacer Guess they are not a "commit" and only a "recruit"
cu1981fans
spacer or Columbia, MO or Baton Rouge, LA or Little Rock AR***
tigerking79
spacer Re: or Columbia, MO or Baton Rouge, LA or Little Rock AR***
Country Gentleman®
spacer You missed the point. They said the closest schools
MSTiger02®
spacer They aren't going to drive. Flying to Tx is no different
deleted
spacer its funny that you pick the 2 farthest teams in the acc
MSTiger02®
spacer I'm simply pointing out we already travel long distances and
deleted
spacer Re: I'm simply pointing out we already travel long distances and
GPTigerFan
spacer Re: I'm simply pointing out we already travel long distances and
85_alumnus
spacer I would love to see a breakdown of where alums live.
MDT1GER
spacer Aha! Found it, and it's worse than I thought.
MDT1GER
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deroberts
spacer Yep.***
SouthernSun96
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tigger49
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clemtiger117
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clemtiger117
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deroberts
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clemtiger117
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89tigergrad
spacer Wrong. The ACC thinks basketball first, nothing CU & FSU
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spacer Re: Wrong. The ACC thinks basketball first, nothing CU & FSU
89tigergrad
spacer LOL! We just added two basketball schools. What are
deleted
spacer Re: LOL! We just added two basketball schools. What are
89tigergrad
spacer And who is this "parent". Another thing…..
tigerking79
spacer Re: And who is this "parent". Another thing…..
deroberts
spacer Let's be a little realistic here dude…...
tigerking79
spacer Lets be realistic?
TigerStyle13®
spacer You still don't get it…...
tigerking79
spacer You're missing the point
TigerStyle13®
spacer so you would rather have us play Duke or Wake, instead of...
tigerking79
spacer Hey Derpina, stop saying Oklahoma & Texas and then two
soccerkrzy®
spacer If we went to the Big 12 we would still play FSU…...
tigerking79
spacer Exactly!
BigTig
spacer Clemson WILL and SHOULD do what is best for Clemson.
Tiger5
spacer pretty sure youre the one missing the point
MSTiger02®
spacer Let's see all the players from Florida have to drive a long
tigerking79
spacer You can't take the the situation of one or even half
MSTiger02®
spacer Then, they can go to NC State and stay in the ACC. Look at
Spud®
spacer the point is that it is the family's choice. Don't hate on
MSTiger02®
spacer Re: Let's see all the players from Florida have to drive a long
Country Gentleman®
spacer Most of these games are on chartered flights. It would not
Tiger5
spacer Sammy's family do have a long way to drive..... but
89tigergrad
spacer Not true at all. We lose recruits from poor families all the
deleted
spacer Re: You still don't get it…...
cutiger250
spacer I don't diss players, former or current***
tigerking79
spacer also part of finding a way is to go close to home.***
MSTiger02®
spacer Re: Let's be a little realistic here dude…...
deroberts
spacer if you have only missed 10 games since 1980,…...
tigerking79
spacer Re: if you have only missed 10 games since 1980,…...
deroberts
spacer you just made my point…..
tigerking79
spacer Re: you just made my point…..
deroberts
spacer you just admitted your vacations were Clemson away games...
tigerking79
spacer Re: you just admitted your vacations were Clemson away games...
deroberts
spacer you don't have to get upset that I pin pointed how you were
tigerking79
spacer lmao..
cutiger250
spacer Uh yes I did pin point…...
tigerking79
spacer Re: Uh yes I did pin point…...
deroberts
spacer whoa, dude, going a little over board there***
tigerking79
spacer no offense, but unless you've ever made the commitment
tigrjm76®
spacer Amen brother***
CLEMSON96JDH
spacer Sorry but watching Clemson isn't a "sacrifice"
TX Tiger®
spacer You have done the trip for many years. They would at the
Tiger5
spacer For many it isnt an either/or
TX Tiger®
spacer How the heck do you know...
cutiger250
spacer Re: How the heck do you know...
deroberts
spacer didn't say you were rich just pointed out the way you….
tigerking79
spacer I just pointed out how he was able to go to all the away….
tigerking79
spacer Re: if you have only missed 10 games since 1980,…...
carolinachef
spacer Never told the guy how to use his money. He said he was...
tigerking79
spacer Re: Let's be a little realistic here dude…...
clemtiger117
spacer Re: And who is this "parent". Another thing…..
brad12
spacer Many go to away games ....
OhWiseOne®
spacer Agree
Prime T. Tiger
spacer What about the parents of all our Florida kids who have
truetiger1998
spacer Your post points to the absurdity of this "parents" pov….
tigerking79
spacer Most people are confused by logic. Careful!!***
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spacer Some of you people will argue anything.***
TigerStyle13®
spacer "YOU PEOPLE"
89tigergrad
spacer Re: Front Page Story: A parent's point of view
TNTCU
spacer How about a PLAYER'S Viewpoint?
cu1981fans
spacer exactly***
tigerking79
spacer Florida State, Virginia Tech, Miami***
soccerkrzy®
spacer We haven't played duke in 6 years.***
TigerStyle13®
spacer Baylor, KU, ISU ....
TX Tiger®
spacer Re: Baylor, KU, ISU ....
sgt tiger®
spacer So they can afford to relocate the family
CU at the Valley
spacer Re: So they can afford to relocate the family
deroberts
spacer Re: So they can afford to relocate the family
CU at the Valley
spacer ^^^stated it perfectly^^^^***
tigerking79
spacer Re: So they can afford to relocate the family
clemtiger117
spacer Guess they only have one child!
TigerTwice®
spacer Very selfish point of view
CarmelTig
spacer How so? If it's only us and FSU, it could well turn out to
SouthernSun96
spacer Re: Unless this results in the formation of a Big 12 East
SouthernSun96
spacer Big 12 would not hurt recruiting
bengalbabe
spacer Flying to Tx or Kansas is no different than flying to Miami
deleted
spacer Meh
Commander690B
spacer If their son goes to the NFL, he will be making enough....
TigerStyle13®
spacer Very true. ### am I thinking lol***
Commander690B
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jvtiger77
spacer Some of you guys
FORESTTIGER
spacer ED ZACHARY!***
soccerkrzy®
spacer Re: Some of you guys
jvtiger77
spacer Re: Some of you guys
Litefoot®
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Litefoot®
spacer I think it's a wash
Tiger Contractor
spacer Dear Mystery Parent......
CU_Tigers4life®
spacer Re: Dear Mystery Parent......
jvtiger77
spacer Re: Dear Mystery Parent......
deroberts
spacer The Tail Cannot Wag the Dog at Clemson!***
CU_Tigers4life®
spacer Re: Dear Mystery Parent......
jvtiger77
spacer If this parent gets that upset over what some of us nutjobs
tigerking79
spacer Re: Dear Mystery Parent......
CU at the Valley
spacer pretty sure the are looking at the number of close games not
MSTiger02®
spacer Re: pretty sure the are looking at the number of close games not
jvtiger77
spacer Re: pretty sure the are looking at the number of close games not
CU at the Valley
spacer This year our 2 farthest opponents are away
MSTiger02®
spacer Beside what I posted above this
CU at the Valley
spacer You might want to look at going to Furman
Spud®
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bigwig71
spacer ROFL. You may be right!***
Commander690B
spacer Poor kid just found out his parents were moving with him to
Spud®
spacer That would have been my view at that age, but you
Wyndie
spacer Clemson Survived Kyle Parker's Mom if you Remember....
CU_Tigers4life®
spacer and his Helicopter Dad***
tigerking79
spacer Yea Arkansas almost imploded thanks to players parents***
deleted
spacer I sure hope we don't choose our conference based on
rsgarrick
spacer Sounds to me like they are not living for their kids, but
Spud®
spacer As a parent and football coach
dago44
spacer I have read all of the above posts and I see a lot of
clover65®
spacer the article never states that this is a middle class family***
tigerking79
spacer Re: the article never states that this is a middle class family***
deroberts
spacer Point- and thanks.***
clover65®
spacer Sixth line down from the Big 12 Logo- "us being in the
clover65®
spacer This might help...
soccerkrzy®
spacer If they are middle class, and their son is getting a 00%
Spud®
spacer lol yea pointing out logic and facts and this parents lack
deleted
spacer What a load of crap.
Baltimore Tiger®
spacer ^^^^best post of the day^^^^^***
tigerking79
spacer this is ONE of many factors to consider making a move
Tigerfansince1972®
spacer Move on.. nothing to see here. A parent won't make
SonsOfClemson
spacer Complete load of crap. End of story.
PioneerG
spacer if we stay in the ACC he won't have a NC to watch his son
cutiger51908
spacer this parent must be forgetting the fact that if we go
cutiger51908
spacer SCar will use this against us when recruiting local talent.
Ridge Creek
spacer Re: SCar will use this against us when recruiting local talent.
Pawzski
spacer Clemson can use the fact it has won and will win titles***
Cobbox
spacer Many Big-12 Bigots don't "get it" ....
OhWiseOne®
spacer yeah.. I'm sure Sammy Watkins was screaming at his parents
SonsOfClemson
spacer Football "scholarship" players are the exception .....
OhWiseOne®
spacer I don't think the ACC has ANYTHING AT ALL TO DO
Tigerfansince1972®
spacer You are correct... and
OhWiseOne®
spacer Do you really think non-athlete students choose Clemson
Tiger5
spacer no....again 1/2 the kids at Clemson couldn't name the
Tigerfansince1972®
spacer Yes ....
OhWiseOne®
spacer Could someone explain to them
PenthouseTiger
spacer Me thinks David Hood.......
normasjayray
spacer In denial.***
josephg®
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DerekEvans9859®
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palmettoson
spacer If his son goes somewhere in the Southern Conference,
Cobbox
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CidTiger
spacer If we go Big12, others close by will also.***
Orangetiger70®
spacer Exactly....if we go there will be a group close.***
TigerTown
spacer Think about Notre Dame
SteelTiger1
spacer And another thing...
SteelTiger1
spacer Been saying this all along...GET A CLUE folks! Big issue***
coachmac
spacer Disagree!! (totally)
Prime T. Tiger
spacer Why does everyone assume all the parents live in SC?
IMORANGE
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CidTiger
spacer Clemson must do what is best for overall program. Sorry...
kbtiger®
spacer Re: Clemson must do what is best for overall program. Sorry...
Ucel74
spacer Re: Clemson must do what is best for overall program. Sorry...
CUalum79ALLn65®
spacer We Have 173 Relies...
GrayBengal®
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