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Those of you that cannot believe that Urban's wife did not

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 7:46 AM
 

tell him something, then you have either never been married, or not married long enough, or just plain naive. If I had a nickel...


I guess, but this isn't "forgetting" to tell

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 7:52 AM
 

him about a new dress or piece of jewelry. This directly impacted his career, their life and his reputation.

I can't imagine that being kept a secret....especially with multiple other coach's wives knowing too.

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Re: I guess, but this isn't "forgetting" to tell


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 7:58 AM
 

"imagine" - John Lennon used that word the best "Imagine there's no heaven...", but I don't think that made him a bad guy. I always think of that song when I see that word.

:) Just joking around.


Re: Those of you that cannot believe that Urban's wife did not

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 7:52 AM
 

I’ve been married 42 years and there are plenty of things I “neglected” to tell my husband like how much the prom dress cost, what grade my son made on an algebra test, or that I overdrew my checking account. But, if I knew something about one of his employees that could potentially hurt his business or his reputation, even if it was an allegation, I would have to tell him! I believe Shelley shared what she knew with her husband.

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:00 AM
 

Or - (playing Devil's Advocate here) - if she does not tell him, then he would not know, and he could claim (whatever that is in lawyer speak - deniability?) and NOBODY could touch him. She would be protecting her 'investment'. Just sayin'.


I'm not sure that even works in this situation. This isn't

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:06 AM
 

a legal case. Ohio State can fire Urban without proving anything.. they only have to prove he violated some part of his contract to fire him with cause.

Also, Bryan Colangelo just got fired as 76ers GM over his wife's secret twitter accounts. Men in extremely high profile positions like these are often held accountable for the actions of those close to them.

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:13 AM
 

Much more likely that she shared the information with her husband then told him, "I'll deny I told you if it ever comes up."


What are/were the assistant coach's credentials? I can't


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:32 AM
 

imagine burying my head in the sand over something like that because the dude was an above average coach. Geez, Meyer could've hired anybody he wanted to fill the position. Unless the assistant has something on Meyer that he didn't want to get out. Suppose it'll all be exposed sooner rather than later.

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Re: What are/were the assistant coach's credentials? I can't


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 10:18 AM
 

He is the grandson of Meyers' "life coach" who was also an OSU head coach at one point if I recall reading correctly.

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Agreed, I've only been marrried for 16 years


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:14 AM
 

And my wife knows nothing about all the hookers and drugs...God forbid she finds out about those midgets in tijuana.


What happens in Mexico


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:19 AM
 

Doesn’t count. Everyone knows that, amigo


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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:01 AM
 


tell him something, then you have either never been married, or not married long enough, or just plain naive. If I had a nickel...


So what is UMs responsibility if someone told him about it but his employee denied it and the wife did not press charges? Is the boss expected to fire every employee who is accused of a crime when no charges are brought against the employee?


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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:03 AM
 



tell him something, then you have either never been married, or not married long enough, or just plain naive. If I had a nickel...


So what is UMs responsibility if someone told him about it but his employee denied it and the wife did not press charges? Is the boss expected to fire every employee who is accused of a crime when no charges are brought against the employee?



This right here this is my problem with the whole thing what is his responsibility in this. We are suppose to fire people over accusations. I don’t think so.


Not sure of the legalities, but I know what you're NOT


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:07 AM
 

supposed to do.....sit on the information and hope it "gets better". It appears that's what "tha Urb" did.

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Re: Those of you that cannot believe that Urban's wife did not

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:20 AM
 

Title IX requires reporting incidents for investigation. This does not require firing someone but you must report.


All he would've had to have done is report to the AD in a


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:35 AM
 

private meeting, responsibility removed from Urban at that point. Something stinks, bad.

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Ok. I will concede that COULD have happened.

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:24 AM
 

But it doesn’t seem likely that she kept that secret for 3 years.

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He has to let the university know of the allegations


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:04 AM
 

which he did not do.

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He's responsible for notifying his employers


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:08 AM
 

which he apparently did not do. If it is later revealed that he DID do that and the coverup goes higher up, we will see more jobs in jeopardy.

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Re: He's responsible for notifying his employers


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:10 AM
 

Then why doesn’t this pertain to the other coaches. They knew about it to. Their wives knew about it. Surely their wives would have told them to.


Domino effect.. it does.***

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Re: He's responsible for notifying his employers


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:11 AM
 

Seems like the only way he keeps his job. I wonder if THE Ohio state is looking for THE administrative fall guy, while Urban is on THE administrative leave?

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Both Urban and his Wife are Required by Title IX to report


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:09 AM
 

It is also reported that Urban wife is also an employee at Ohio State.
As such, but she and Urban are required by Title IX to report the possible abuse.
Poor judgement and apparent coverup along with Urban history with Zach Smith means its just a matter of time for a new coach.


Re: Those of you that cannot believe that Urban's wife did not

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:14 AM
 

I live near Ohio St. Shelly likes to be Mrs Head Coach. She is always around for the post game photos as Ms Buckeye and seems to relish being the focal point. She does ads for a local chain and even teaches nursing at the university. Given the relationship between the families you can bet your behind that she most like told him and they spoke at length about the situation and how to handle it in 2015. Yet the firing did not come about until knowledge of the protective order and stalking after Smith's divorce came out. 9 police visits during the time at OSU and nary a charge filed. University fingerprints are all over this too.

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Re: Those of you that cannot believe that Urban's wife did not

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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 8:17 AM
 

Guys, you are playing what if's when all one has to do is READ the texts. They say Urban knew and believed Zach. Say what you will , I believe words from those in the inner circle. Meyer is done like a turkey at Thanksgiving.


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Posted: Aug 2, 2018 10:05 AM
 

Recommend all that are interested in this saga read the from the source reporting - Brett McMurphy:

https://www.facebook.com/TheBrettMcMurphy/posts/2042037522486968


IMO Urban is done - he is on paid administrative leave while the University figures out how to fire him without paying a bunch of $$ on the way out.

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That is actually UM's best shot at keeping his job at


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 9:53 AM
 

this point in time. If he can claim no knowledge due to her not telling him, he will come off as naive and uninformed, but not as a bald faced coverup artist. If he can keep her on board as not telling him, then, DENY, DENY, DENY.

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Considering everyone involved are employees of OSU,


Posted: Aug 2, 2018 10:24 AM
 

Title IX will come into effect. Right now, they are just trying to figure out how to end his contract without paying him. He's done at OSU.

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