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All-TigerNet [10871]
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Is it wrong to go on a date with another woman
Nov 20, 2018, 9:47 PM
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After going on a few dates with yet another woman? I mean, do you even discuss exclusivity that early on or just go on the date? You can’t help but feel you could possibly be an even better fit with someone else and you’ll never know if you don’t see. Thoughts? I’m terrible at dating and the unspoken rules that accompany it.
I’ve heard people tell me they hated their now spouse after the first date...so the whole love at first sight thing doesn’t happen for everyone.
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All-In [38925]
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no sex= multiply persons dating allowed
Nov 20, 2018, 9:53 PM
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had sex= you may want to slow cause she may think its something special and go Lorena Bobbitt on your ###.
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Re: no sex= multiply persons dating allowed
Nov 20, 2018, 10:03 PM
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Hmmm, yeah nothing like that. Just a kiss or two. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I feel like that’d happen if I told her OR if she found out. If I didn’t tell her and the other girl was a no go, then I’d advance the other relationship...maybe even discuss exclusivity at that point? Heck, I’m not even sure she isn’t talking to someone else. She seems to have something to do ALL the time and her text responses are frequently delayed. BUT, it’s not like she’s avoiding me all together...she still makes plans for future dates.
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All-TigerNet [11630]
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Just a kiss? Are you 12?
Nov 20, 2018, 10:05 PM
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It’s pound town or hit the road.
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Re: Just a kiss? Are you 12?
Nov 20, 2018, 10:12 PM
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Lol! I’ve been there in the past...that absolutely opens a can of worms if things go south. I actually prefer it this way. We see each other almost every day at work so I don’t want to do anything to make things awkward. Neither one of us would leave our position. If we decide to go our separate ways, it has to remain civil. Adding sex into the equation is a bit of a gamble...
Plus she’s a really good girl. I haven’t discussed premarital sex with her but there’s a chance she may be against it.
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Oculus Spirit [81061]
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oh my***
Nov 21, 2018, 9:08 AM
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All-TigerNet [10871]
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Wrong sex...
Nov 20, 2018, 10:21 PM
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Unless you like the baloney pony
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Oculus Spirit [97719]
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All-In [49173]
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I don't know.
Nov 20, 2018, 10:05 PM
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I just wanna say it's been interesting reading your posts after being married 33 yrs. I'd also be terrified and confused by the norms. Go for it.
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All-TigerNet [10871]
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Re: I don't know.
Nov 20, 2018, 10:19 PM
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Ha, I haven’t even been alive that long but dating is confusing, period. I’d imagine male/female roles were more defined in the past and there were always certain expectations. Nowadays, left is right, up is down....sometimes I think dating in this country has advanced to a confusing experience. Most women believe they don’t need a man nowadays, and with that mentality, divorce is always an ace up the sleeve along with alimony and all the goodys that go along with it. They’ll let you know that up front too. It’s made me back away from several relationships. I even found out after one break up that she always thought I’d be a good ex husband...wteff is that???
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All-In [30829]
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Dating is all about her finding out your dong size.
Nov 20, 2018, 11:20 PM
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Most gals are size queens, but some are munchkin munchers. If sizes match, the other stuff will fall in place.
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Oculus Spirit [93668]
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Deer Ann...
Nov 21, 2018, 6:19 AM
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If you're secular everything is relative to whether or not you can justify it. Imo, you're putting too much weight on public opinion.
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Oculus Spirit [75717]
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Well, are you going to Thanksgiving with one of them?
Nov 21, 2018, 7:58 AM
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If so, I'd say they think you are exclusive and you best get it sorted.
Now, non-family based Christmas parties are different. Those are about getting drunk and getting it on.
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okra***
Nov 21, 2018, 8:44 AM
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You say okra, I say
Nov 21, 2018, 8:47 AM
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110%er [9093]
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I say
Nov 21, 2018, 8:49 AM
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CU Medallion [66059]
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Aye, fam, let me drop sum knowledge on you
Nov 21, 2018, 8:54 AM
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By the second date you must fornicate, if not, then you must separate, do not confuse this with her wanting to procreate
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Oculus Spirit [75717]
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And here you are, an influencer of young ladies.
Nov 21, 2018, 9:16 AM
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But yeah, somewhere north of 35 fooling around can be quick and getting serious can take a while. Totally acceptable.
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CU Medallion [66059]
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aero keeps missing
Nov 21, 2018, 9:32 AM
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that 95% of my posts are trolls
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Oculus Spirit [75717]
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Sounds like a you problem.***
Nov 21, 2018, 9:36 AM
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CU Medallion [66059]
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Problem ? No, sir, not at all
Nov 21, 2018, 9:41 AM
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once I got that cold Blue Moon tonight, all will be well
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Well, Tall_Tiger_Two, here's the thing...
Nov 21, 2018, 9:31 AM
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Nothing wrong with it at all.
Nov 21, 2018, 9:43 AM
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When I got permanently separated I dated a lot of women at the same time. The downside is it gets expensive bc of all the dates, upside is lots of sex.
I did have one I thought was my fav and turned out she was and now exclusive. But I wanted to make sure that she was the one bc she was the best, not bc she was the only option. The tricky part is u can’t tell the women u are dating others (even though they probably are too) and have to plan these dates out in advance bc when your dating 5-6 women at once they all want time. It actually ended up being exhausting. Getting 5 different “Good Morning” texts and have to carry on those text threads w them all day.
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All-TigerNet [12851]
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marriage wins again
Nov 21, 2018, 10:04 AM
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i go days without texts
sometimes when i am out of town we dont talk for a couple of days.
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CU Medallion [54758]
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this sounds wonderful
Nov 21, 2018, 10:21 AM
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the no texting thing, that is
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All-TigerNet [12851]
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just checked my phone.
Nov 21, 2018, 11:03 AM
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not counting yesterday, which was about getting my son to his football game (important to ME)
our last text was Last Friday confirming our tailgate groceries.
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Oculus Spirit [79207]
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Just make sure you wash the stank off inbetween visits***
Nov 21, 2018, 9:44 AM
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This is key! There were times I had sex w one after lunch
Nov 21, 2018, 10:04 AM
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And then a date and sex for dinner. Then a few times I’d get those “you up” texts from a drunk one around midnight and have to go bone them too. It does get rather exhausting.
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I hate to break it to you, but she's likely going out with
Nov 21, 2018, 10:44 AM
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other dudes as well, so yes it's perfectly fine
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Oculus Spirit [79207]
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how big are their wangs?***
Nov 21, 2018, 11:13 AM
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All-In [36450]
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Well definitely bigger than TTT’s.
Nov 21, 2018, 11:16 AM
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So hopefully he knows how to go down well.
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All-TigerNet [12851]
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so he tastes all those other doods
Nov 21, 2018, 11:28 AM
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ewwwwwwe
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Heisman Winner [105562]
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I like to go down on them after I finish banging them,
Nov 21, 2018, 12:48 PM
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that way I know who I am eating after.
+1 to my supervisor at the City of York when I was a 16 year old high school kid working manual labor.
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