Lunge advice needed....probably not a big deal.....

Dec 8, 2018, 11:01 AM

Ok so you all know I don't social media much, except for ####. And even then don't communicate with anyone really. ANYWAY....also have a Facebook account I hardly ever use other than for neighborhood news/cub scouts/church/etc.

Well, I get this friend request from some generic name (as in not a person's name). Like Peace, Love, and Understanding or something. I'm like whatever. Figured it was spam. For some reason I checked the mutual friends list. Usually spam has a one or two random common friends who probably got hacked. But this user was friends with like 40 people from high school, mostly the grade above me, so it was a narrow group of friends. So I accepted, figuring it was someone from high school.

And then I scrolled and got uneasy. This person posts these mental drama quotes all day every day. Like Don't Dwell on Negative Thoughts. Fake friends are around when they think you're cool. True friends are around even when you think you are a fool. Yada yada. FUPA stuff.

So I started digging. Found like 3-4 pics with normal people in them, and a common person in all 3. Couldn't remember her name. Dug around some more. Finally figured out who it is. This girl was a year ahead of me in HS. She has another "normal and less concerning FB page" under her real name with mainly regular photos, etc. posted. Not all the mental anguish/depressing drama stuff. I also noticed I had not friended her on her regular page under her real name. Never really communicated much with her even in HS. Also posts a ton of selfies on her regular page. NO big deal except normally selfies are chicks trying to look hot. Her selfies ALL have this stare that's just creepy. Not hot.

I'm thinking she has some serious issues. But it's creepy first she friended me with an anonymous account, then the content of that account SCREAMS "I have serious issues".

I know enough to stay the heck away, but it's just creepy. I hayte social media. Actually this one is so clear I don't need advice. Just feel bad for her. She was really nice in HS. Obviously now in a life with issues. If one of my closer friends posted like this I'd communicate with them and try and help them. But she is random, so no way.

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kissed. Like REALLY kissed. She was like 2-3 years older than me at the time. I was probably 7-8yo and she was maybe 9-10 yo. She lived across the street. One day I was playing in the yard and she came across the street and asked if I could play with her in her yard. So I went. Then she takes me by the hand and takes me over into the bushes behind their AC unit on the side of the house. Says she wants a kiss. I'm like ###? (She's about 3 years early on the request). Said she wanted a REAL kiss, "like they do on Days of Our Lives". So I obliged, and did a horrible job I'm sure.

Well, evidently I got off to an awesome start. She grew up to be a smoking hot Panther's cheerleader.

I had totally forgotten about her. She only lived across the street maybe 2 years tops then moved away. Went to a different high school. Oh well. c'est la vie

Lunge advice needed....probably not a big deal.....

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I would advise, but

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One thing interesting. She is friends with the first girl I

Kind of elaborate but very nice segway into this

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