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Updates and advice/help needed. (With pictures) *click bait*
Oct 9, 2020, 11:25 AM
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TL;DR version: Bunch of selfish posts inside one post. I lost weight, I need some word of mouth help to get me more business, and what does the lounge say about the importance of sex in a relationship?
Sup Loungers, been a while and I wanted to give some updates in my life since I'm also needing some help and the lounge is my go-to for help and advice.
First off, Covid life sucks. I lost 90% of my work and income since March but still trying. Decided to homeschool kiddo in the mean time but on a positive note, I've lost a good bit of weight thanks to keto, not eating out and going for daily walks pushing the stroller or bike rides with the kiddo as well as a ton of swimming and out door activities this summer. Here's a before and after picture:
I actually have lost a few more lbs since this picture and I'm doing fine with everything! First time in my life it doesn't feel like a diet but an actual life change. Best side effect from the weight loss is I'm a lot cooler, A/C and heating costs have gone down a good bit and I'm sleeping like a rock because my normal room temps now feel at lot cooler to me!
As much as covid life has been a pain in the ### for me/everyone, I've also accomplished a few things with my newly added spare time. Since I didn't have the ability to go to the gym after quarantine started, I canceled my membership and revamped my garage and turning it into a home gym and man-cave. I epoxied the flooring, put up a tv and sound bar, got a bike trainer, battle ropes, floor mats and just turned it into a space I can chill or workout in after kiddo goes to bed.
I've even watched our bye week games in there after bringing my tv from my bedroom down and setting it up next to the mounted one. Grilling in the driveway, two games on from noon until almost midnight and beer in the mini-fridge was a good day!
As I mentioned before my work basically dried up since March. I primarily was doing weddings before covid and they all got canceled/post-ponded. TBH since my wife died I haven't enjoyed weddings at all. They are stressful for a variety of reasons and now as a single father I really just don't want to do them anymore. But I still need to work, and so I'm trying to get some real estate gigs, I've shot houses before but I'm really making a push right now and could really use your help! If are a realtor or know any please share my info! I'm just outside of Charlotte and I don't mind traveling some for work especially if I could shoot a handful of houses in a day/week, it'd be worth it. I do photos, videos and drone.
Check out my website for some samples and please share my info!
Check out my website for some samples and please share my info!
I also have still been shooting underwater so if anyone wants to go diving or shoot next summer in a pool I'd love to!
Finally, I need some lounge advice. I have been dating (again) for a few years now and at times it's been pretty stressful. I have probably 100s of stories now of bat-#### crazy women with piles of baggage that I could tell but I'll save those for another post. But I'll give a situation first and then ask some questions.
I was talking to this chick, she's divorced, 38ish, been single for years, no kids, wants kids, no major red-flags (in the beginning) and then we started talking about deeper topics. At first we were seemingly on the same page about everything. We had good chemistry and attraction. We both wanted the same things in life and a relationship etc etc but then the subject turned to sex. Now, I'll admit I'm probably more sex driven than most. As a guy I think I focus on sex more than women too. That hasn't been the case in my recent dating experiences either, some women are thirsty AF and it's pretty awesome. But unlike my gentlemanly early days of dating, pre-marriage, I'll sleep with someone on a first date now. I try not to straight up use them (meaning I always have intentions of seeing them and sleeping with them again or dating them) but I'll admit that I've used some too. But when this chick and I started talking about sex she IMMEDIATELY informed me that she was remaining abstinent until marriage and would "never live with someone until she was married" either... this baffled my mind. I mean if we were 15 and she was saving herself for marriage I could understand but I felt this was unreasonable and after chatting for a few more times, I eventually ended talking to her.
But to my questions: Am I being un-reasonable? How important do you think sex is in a relationship? Or early on? How fast should you jump into bed? Should sex (good, bad, or lack there of) be a deal-breaker?
Anyway FYT here are some chicks I've seen on various dating sites:
  
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Couple things, try getting into Architectural Photography
Oct 9, 2020, 11:37 AM
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as well. I am sure you are trying or have tried, but I know a person who moonlights as a photog for an Architect in a local city in SC south of Charlotte. It's his side gig so I am sure you would be able to swoop in and steal his work.
Secondly, saving yourself for marriage as a divorcee at 38 is some bullshit. What if you both jump back into a marriage and she ends up being a dud in the bed or she needs someone with a much larger schlong than you can provide? These things need to be ironed out ahead of time.
Good luck with the dating, I hear the divorcees are much more ready to jump into bed. The guys on here who are remarried talk about it like they get it all the time. Maybe that is true, maybe that is stretching the truth a little to justify themselves, but either way, still havin sex.
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Greenr coming in with advice based on his own experience
Oct 9, 2020, 11:43 AM
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"she needs someone with a much larger schlong than you can provide?"
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Heisman Winner [105381]
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Yo, Greenr is happily married
Oct 9, 2020, 11:46 AM
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and he is reasonably sure WifeofGreenr is as well.
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She has a very shallow ######.***
Oct 9, 2020, 2:17 PM
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Heisman Winner [105381]
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Re: She has a very shallow ######.***
Oct 9, 2020, 2:20 PM
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Oculus Spirit [79073]
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I don't get it. Can you post it another 4 times?***
Oct 9, 2020, 2:50 PM
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Re: I don't get it. Can you post it another 4 times?***
Oct 9, 2020, 2:51 PM
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CU Medallion [65915]
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You aren't being unreasonable at all
Oct 9, 2020, 11:41 AM
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I'd never marry someone if I didn't know we were secks yull LEE compatible.
Sorry about the work stuff. Have you considerd starting an OnlyFans page ?
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Yeah, do you want to buy pics of my feet?
Oct 9, 2020, 11:44 AM
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or but-whole?
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Mr. Shoeless, I speak for all of us when I say
Oct 9, 2020, 11:48 AM
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Hall of Famer [23854]
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I got you fam
Oct 9, 2020, 11:53 AM
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Artsy too
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Oh and man, spend all the time you can with that
Oct 9, 2020, 11:55 AM
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little one. It goes way too fast. I remember you playing soccer with my son at the SIF Death Storm. He's less than a year away from graduating college.
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nope, never happening, my kid won't grow up
Oct 9, 2020, 5:39 PM
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nope
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Heisman Winner [105381]
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Shiny. Normally don't see them that bright. Good bit of
Oct 9, 2020, 12:12 PM
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bleach to make that happen.
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Re: Updates and advice/help needed. (With pictures) *click bait*
Oct 9, 2020, 11:44 AM
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Good to see you and that you are doing well.
I could be wrong, but after reading through the post, it seems to me that what is most on your mind is this woman who didn't want to have sex before marriage. If she's not still on your mind, I'm way off base.
If it is her desire to abstain until marriage, how can you sy she is being unreasonable? If it's a deal breaker for you then you are not being unreasonable. Go your separate ways.
Abstaining from sex outside of marriage isn't just for teenagers for some people. Maybe she has a religious objection. Maybe there are the psychological pitfalls with having that physical connection before the commitment. Perhaps there is something to be said for keeping some mystery in the relationship before the commitment.
I'm not judging or telling you what to do. I'm just trying to answer whether or not either of you are being unreasonable. Based on both of your goals, I would say neither is being unreasonable.
If this is not the case, ignore this...but if your mind is still on this girl and not on all the other ones you banged, perhaps you she consider why this is.
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Hall of Famer [23854]
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good points
Oct 9, 2020, 11:50 AM
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she's hasn't been on my mind much in general, mostly was just curious what the lounge thought and would drum up some funny convo. I've been talking to some new girls (who I'm much more interested in) lately. I just haven't BEEN with anyone since I talked to that girl so she pops up some.
I think waiting is fine for her, maybe I'm being unreasonable. But waiting is just not for me. Only reason I want to wait is if she hasn't been tested (not for covid).
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Re: It's a TRAP!!
Oct 9, 2020, 5:52 PM
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Run!!
At least ask to see her buttwhole. You can tell a lot from looking at her BH.
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Oh, and one big piece of advice
Oct 9, 2020, 11:52 AM
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if yore banging on first dates
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Lot o points [163006]
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First good to hear from you and congrats on the weight
Oct 9, 2020, 11:57 AM
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loss.
Cannot help on the work side, so best wishes there.
I would put a good sexual relationship high up on a healthy marriage and since you admit sex is important to you, not having a good understanding of what that is going to be like until married would be a deal breaker for me.
I would have a deeper (  "> ) conversation about this topic with her and tell her the truth - sex is important to you in a healthy relationship.
Just my opinion.
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1,2
Oct 9, 2020, 12:01 PM
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and I am talking about the pigs of you
cute kid
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Great seeing you in here old friend. Don’t be a stranger. ****
Oct 9, 2020, 12:06 PM
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Hall of Famer [23854]
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no doubt!
Oct 9, 2020, 5:12 PM
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HMU in email or tmail if you are going to games !
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ECU chicks are cray cray bro
Oct 9, 2020, 12:21 PM
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I know from experience. Many experiences actually.
Be careful and wrap up that schlong.
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Two questions ...
Oct 9, 2020, 12:30 PM
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Any more pics of the whoores you've been slangin? Need some booty hole pics for further research.
Also, with the significant weight loss, does the peen look larger?
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Re: Two questions ...
Oct 9, 2020, 5:15 PM
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I'll have to go an look through the old files to see if I have any worth posting, problem is any that are hot enough to post could 100% come back to haunt me if found out, the ones that are below 7s... yeah I'm not admitting to that ####
peen looks great! check tmail for pics.
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250lb guy, checkin' in for peen info & updates***
Oct 10, 2020, 11:21 AM
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Lots to unpack here but one thing does stand out.
Oct 9, 2020, 1:48 PM
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Maybe I can contribute more after revisiting the post, but the 38 year old wanting to abstain either has a dong or that meat curtain locker smells like stubborn_tiger® aka tent_dweller's feet after hanging out in an alley for a week and walking around in some drunken 7spots chorizo dish.
Divorced, single, no kids, wants kids, 38 years old, won't have seggs tells me she is more than likely either a) hiding something, b) a dude, c) batshat crazy, d)eez nutz, e)has a dominatrix side hustle, f)Carlsbad®'s applebees hooker, or e) all of the above.
Life's too short not to sportfark young broads in your situation. Ditch that tiredassed old hag and get back on the ECU campus.
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Shoot. One more thing:
Oct 9, 2020, 1:49 PM
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Can we get some highlight vids again?
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Dude...
Oct 9, 2020, 5:19 PM
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some of these chicks got some weird STRONG odors coming from their pleasure sleeves... i mean like if I'm hitting from the back i gotta put my nose high like I'm trying to get to the surface of a pool. I used to like to eat... now I'm blaming my back on it. Think I might buy a summer's eve pack or wipes or something for my bathroom.
I wish I could do highlights, but I'm not doing anything unless I'm getting paid and doing it legit (someone call munson or mark childress). Clemson's social media team is doing a bunch of my ideas at least. They'll never get my off-season ideas without ponying up.
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OK, first of all...you don't need any advice from the Lunge.
Oct 9, 2020, 1:51 PM
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We are the Misfit Toys from the Rudolph movie. We're mostly ####-raisers, ne're-do-wells, slightly off kilter psychos, and we don't play well with others. That's what you're dealing with here. You will probably get very few serious answers. Having said that...
You're fine, dude. You're doing OK. Better than OK. Your relationship with your child is priceless. You're looking good, feeling good, and you'll figure out a way to make a living. We always do, right?. The chick with the odd stance on pre-marital sex... man, I don't know. Could be a great woman with high morals, or a weirdo that wants you to be in a Lifetime movie. Nobody can answer that. Any man that figures out women will get a Nobel Peace Prize...
Just go with your gut. Think about what advice your mom or dad would give you. Can't go wrong.
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GGGGGGGGGAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***
Oct 9, 2020, 2:22 PM
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Good advice!
Oct 9, 2020, 5:23 PM
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I definitely don't claim to understand women but I'm pretty quick to spot the red flags now. I really should start posting some of my stories on here since dating. I was dating a chick who was engaged and I didn't know it. I still wonder if she told him about us. Her now husband and baby daddy might want to get a paternity check on the kid... actually kid's ugly AF, def not mine.
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Only realtor I know in Charlotte....
Oct 9, 2020, 3:15 PM
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is Kenny Fuqua. He's a buddy from Aiken and he and his wife Lori (also realtor) went to Clemson.
https://kennyfuqua.helenadamsrealty.com/
Maybe you can use Clemson connection to see if he can throw you some work.
Good luck!
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Hall of Famer [23854]
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tmail me
Oct 9, 2020, 5:24 PM
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I'm gonna email him
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Oculus Spirit [82946]
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Great to see you here again, but, question:
Oct 9, 2020, 3:28 PM
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How did you go from Italian/Greek/South American guy on the left to a Scandinavian/German/Austrian guy on the right?
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spray tan, @ss implants, sun-in and 25 waxing sessions
Oct 9, 2020, 5:26 PM
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that answer your question?
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Heck I remember longer hair and black nail polish lol. ******
Oct 9, 2020, 5:32 PM
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ME?!?!??!
Oct 9, 2020, 5:38 PM
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I would NEVER do such craziness to my hair and fingernails!!!
(BTW I was 27 in this pic and probably 40lbs heavier than now lol)
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I want to be offended
Oct 10, 2020, 11:24 AM
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but you f'n nailed it.
sincerely,
an overweight Italian/Greek guy married into a fam w/ a bunch of South Americans
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Deer TigerNet Users, Please Note: THIS IS A PROPER POAST!
Oct 9, 2020, 6:54 PM
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Great pigs, shoeless.
Sorry COVID has hurt your business. I hope you are able to rebound soon.
Thanks also for the good read. Very well done.
My opinion:
Sex isn’t the cornerstone of marriage, but living with someone is. I do think couples should definitely have sex before marriage, but I would demand to live together for at least a year before making the union “legal”. Marriage is only the government’s approval of your union, and who needs the government’s approval? I don’t, but I do need to be able to happily dwell with a person I plan on being with for a significant amount of time. And because of this, I’m pretty sure she’s not the one. The one is out there. Just keep fishing. Hopefully you’ll reel in the one of your dreams one of these days. Until then, take care of yourself while taking those bat-shît-crazy bishes to pound town.
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Here's the best advice you'll get in this thread.
Oct 9, 2020, 11:13 PM
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It's all regarding your "after" pic.
1) I notice the cover charge bracelet on your right wrist. You need to stop taking your daughter to bars--even outdoor ones where they let your kid dress up and get trophies. It's fun, but developmentally unhealthy.
2) On the same topic, find the bouncer who put the bracelet on your wrist, and kick them in the nuts. There's nothing worse than raging all night at a Gwar show with your daughter in tow when some teabag put the bracelet on so tight that it almost cuts off your circulation. You should make sure they put at least a finger's width of space between the bracelet and your arm.
I hope these help, Godspeed amigo.
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You should reach out to Steve about his vision quest.
Oct 10, 2020, 8:22 AM
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It could be really helpful and therapeutic for you. Godspeed.
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