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This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin
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This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 20, 2016, 12:29 PM

Though by race on my birth certificate and driver's license is Caucasian, but as I look deep inside I truly identify myself internally as Native American. Can I start claiming that identity for purposes of employment, scholarships etc?

Actually, I think I may be a leopard in the body of a human, can I now identify as a feral cat?

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I identify as a Clemson football player.


Apr 20, 2016, 12:31 PM

Can I run down the Hill with the team?

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There's something in these hills.


Elizabeth Warren was way ahead of you on this one.***


Apr 20, 2016, 12:31 PM



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Maybe...


Apr 20, 2016, 12:32 PM

there is precedent here:

http://www.cnn.com/2015/06/16/us/washington-rachel-dolezal-naacp/

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 20, 2016, 12:32 PM

I think you start a movement, maybe for transnational restrooms, develop a flag and get a few celebs on board - then a lawsuit - get a reality show and you gotcha sumpin

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 20, 2016, 12:33 PM

Use the Hillary approach. If you believe it, then it's not a lie.

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 20, 2016, 12:57 PM

You mean the Costanza Doctrine?

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin-I'm seeing


Apr 20, 2016, 12:33 PM

nothing cake related here. very disappointing. ;)

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What did you expect? For him to say that though he is


Apr 20, 2016, 12:48 PM

A chocolate cake he is really a fruit cake trapped under his icing?

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cake and the gaze


Apr 20, 2016, 2:06 PM

http://www.tigernet.com/forums/thread.jspa?threadID=1568161&tstart=0

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Your post is humorous, but I think the questions are valid.


Apr 20, 2016, 12:52 PM

How do we know when a person's claimed "identity" is legitimate?

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While that is a valid question


Apr 20, 2016, 1:05 PM

I suppose the question I'd ask first is "when should we care?"

If someone wanted to identify as Native American (someone who isn't actually genetically Native American), for the most part I'd wonder why we'd care. Of course we might begin to care when that person is looking to make use of laws which would benefit them and this they may gain some 'unwarranted' advantage. Then we might care.

But to the point of trans-gendered folks using bathrooms, what advantage is there to be gained from someone pretending to identify as the opposite sex. We already have laws in place to criminalize any nefarious actions of folks, so what practical difference does it make to make it illegal for folks who actually identify as a gender other than their biological sex to use the corresponding bathroom?

Is it that we're worried about who they might be turned on by? (ie a straight man pretending to be a woman in order to get closer to a woman in a woman's restroom) If so why don't we outlaw gay men in a men's bathroom? Or lesbian women in a woman's bathroom?

Has there been some epidemic of folks pretending to be the opposite sex in order to carry out some nefarious purpose in the opposite sex's bathroom? If not why would be think a law criminalizing trans-gendered folks from using their identifying gender's bathroom would lead to one?

I don't think these questions are silly, and of course leve headed folks can disagree, but I don't see why should much worry about how someone identifies (or which gender they are attracted to) in the public sphere until there is demonstrable reason to do so.

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There are many things available exclusively to women


Apr 20, 2016, 1:55 PM

Scholarships, preference in jobs, but especially private spaces reserved for women- schools, locker rooms, gyms, bathrooms, etc. Somehow, I don't think the people who created those things had people of different sex in mind, as those people can only ever experience a surgical and personal approximation of what it's like to be a woman. No amount of surgical intervention will ever change a woman's reproductive system into a man's, and no amount of imitation of whatever someone thinks a man or woman should act like will make the way they act anything more than a caricature. So men who want to be women and then take advantage of things available only to women take the spots of the people those things were intended for, and end up giving men more authority over who women are.

And that's not even getting into the problem with destroying the expectation of privacy from people with opposite sexed bodies. While it's true that there can't be absolute sexual privacy since some people are homosexual, it's also true that the separation of sexes for privacy is based on the assumption of heterosexuality. I'm not sure that we should get rid of that assumption just because we know there are exceptions, since the assumption works for the vast majority of people (ie. there's real problem with the status quo), and since getting rid of sexual distinctions in private places where we might want privacy would be a problem for far more people than keeping them would be.

Finally, if the whole trans thing were just about helping people with gender dysphoria try to live a normal life, then it wouldn't be a major social issue. Instead, it's become a part of the LGBT political movement and the radical queer feminist attack on gender and sex distinctions, and thus "transsexuality" is making a claim for social recognition and affirmation. That's why problematic laws are being discussed and passed like the anti-discrimination measure in Charlotte, and it's why so many people feel compelled to discuss an issue that wouldn't be our business if it was just a matter of mental health.

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I sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter.


Apr 20, 2016, 1:00 PM

Ever since I was a boy I dreamed of soaring over the oilfields dropping hot sticky loads on disgusting foreigners. People say to me that a person being a helicopter is Impossible and I’m ####### retarded but I don’t care, I’m beautiful. I’m having a plastic surgeon install rotary blades, 30 mm cannons and AMG-114 Hellfire missiles on my body. From now on I want you guys to call me “Apache” and respect my right to kill from above and kill needlessly. If you can’t accept me you’re a heliphobe and need to check your vehicle privilege. Thank you for being so understanding.

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 20, 2016, 1:00 PM

http://southpark.cc.com/clips/154792/dolphinoplasty

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- Jonathan Swift


What actually is a "transgender" person?


Apr 20, 2016, 1:13 PM

I'm not sure anybody's really been able to define, for the purposes of law, exactly what it means to be "transgender." Like, would a person who wanted to sue somebody for not accommodating their preferred gender identity have to be diagnosed by a psychologist? Aero says they shouldn't be counted among the "trans" unless they've had their tally-whacker whacked, but my understanding of the "trans" identity is that it has more to do with how a person subjectively identifies (and then they might have "gender confirmation surgery," as the good folks at the Academy Awards so felicitously put it).

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Current thinking


Apr 20, 2016, 1:18 PM

The current accepted definition seems to be both individuals who identify as a gender other than their biological gender, as well as folks who do not identify with one specific defined gender.

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What about cross-dressers?


Apr 20, 2016, 2:00 PM

Or auto-gynopheliacs? It all seems awfully subjective, and therefore not well defined enough to be recognized in law.

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I think...


Apr 20, 2016, 1:31 PM [ in reply to What actually is a "transgender" person? ]

The answer to this question:

"Like, would a person who wanted to sue somebody for not accommodating their preferred gender identity have to be diagnosed by a psychologist?"

Is pretty much yes. Transgender people have to go through intense psychological evaluations to officially carry the label.

I don't think you get to just say, "Oh, BTW, I'm a girl in a dude's body" and let it ride at that.

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Is there an official label? Like an ID card, or certificate?


Apr 20, 2016, 1:34 PM

I did not know that.

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I dunno...


Apr 20, 2016, 1:37 PM

But they better have to suffer at the DMV like the rest of us.

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You can be diagnosed with gender dysphoria***


Apr 20, 2016, 2:03 PM [ in reply to Is there an official label? Like an ID card, or certificate? ]



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Serious question


Apr 22, 2016, 10:56 AM [ in reply to Is there an official label? Like an ID card, or certificate? ]

If a transgendered man looks indistinguishable from non-transgendered man, is it really best for everyone that he uses the woman's bathroom because he was born with female ########?

Now, women are going to thing there is a man in the bathroom... I don't get how that is better?

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I don't think gender theorists would accept that


Apr 20, 2016, 2:03 PM [ in reply to I think... ]

It's too paternalistic. I suspect they would probably also find it offensive to suggest that a "trans" person must be treated as mentally ill before they can identify as "trans." It's either a subjective identity, or it requires some sort of paternalistic confirmation by somebody else that makes it an illness to be treated. And all of the medical confirmation isn't needed by somebody who isn't going to have invasive surgery that would be difficult to correct.


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Actually, I've read where...


Apr 20, 2016, 2:17 PM

Trans people don't mind being called mentally ill because they DO consider themselves mentally ill. They feel their mind does not match up with their body and thus they need a change.

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Well, they think their body is wrong


Apr 20, 2016, 2:32 PM

Not their mind.

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Here's what the American Psychological Association says


Apr 20, 2016, 2:37 PM

"A psychological state is considered a mental disorder only if it causes significant distress or disability. Many transgender people do not experience their gender as distressing or disabling, which implies that identifying as transgender does not constitute a mental disorder. For these individuals, the significant problem is finding affordable resources, such as counseling, hormone therapy, medical procedures and the social support necessary to freely express their gender identity and minimize discrimination. Many other obstacles may lead to distress, including a lack of acceptance within society, direct or indirect experiences with discrimination, or assault. These experiences may lead many transgender people to suffer with anxiety, depression or related disorders at higher rates than nontransgender persons.

According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), people who experience intense, persistent gender incongruence can be given the diagnosis of 'gender dysphoria.' Some contend that the diagnosis inappropriately pathologizes gender noncongruence and should be eliminated. Others argue that it is essential to retain the diagnosis to ensure access to care. The International Classification of Diseases (ICD) is under revision and there may be changes to its current classification of intense persistent gender incongruence as 'gender identity disorder.'"

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Sounds pretty similar to what I was saying, but...


Apr 20, 2016, 3:09 PM

1. I'm not sure the APA is competent to comment on what society's view of gender is, or should be. The implication in that statement is that anything but affirmation of a "trans" person's identity is irrational discrimination, which is the allegedly true cause of "anxiety, depression or related disorders." If only everybody affirmed whatever the "trans" person says, they'd be totally fine.

2. There's a not so subtle contradiction between the second and third sentences of the first paragraph. If the person doesn't experience their gender identity as distressing, then why is there a need for "affordable resources" for them to "freely express their gender identity"? This begs that question, and focuses entirely on discrimination as the cause of "the significant problem." What that also implies is that if there just wasn't any discrimination, then the "trans" person wouldn't need any of those resources to "freely express their gender identity."

It should be obvious that the real issue is a disconsonance between the body and the mind. But this makes it seem like the body matters so little that there can't even be any disagreement between the body and the mind. The mind is just unquestionably right, and the infinitely malleable body is blank.

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So, in your mind, what rights of the body are there?


Apr 20, 2016, 4:22 PM

in comparison to the mind/self?

As to your points:

1.) Who is competent to comment on what society's view of gender is or should be? What is rational discrimination? And how would it be used "against" trans persons? I'm couldn't find in the APA where it says that "if only everybody affirmed whatever the trans person says, they'd be totally fine." Are you sure that's just not you "strawman"-ing their position?

2.)In those sentences aren't they implying or saying that the trans person doesn't find their gender (that they identify as) as distressing? It's the matching up of their ideal self to that gender that needs the resources and also in dealing with how society views them (and the stresses that causes).

How do you read all of this as the body doesn't matter? It seems this proves that the mind/body is an incredibly important relationship, and also, one that is more complicated that many would want you to believe. I think you have the sides of belief on this topic backwards.

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Re: So, in your mind, what rights of the body are there?


Apr 20, 2016, 4:40 PM

People have the right to do whatever they want to their bodies as long as it doesn't harm others or have the explicit intention of causing their own death. But they don't have a right to affirmation or accommodation of whatever they do with their bodies, or for other people to assist them in doing whatever they want.

1. Nobody, and no individual, is competent to dictate what society's view of gender is, including the APA. But psychologists have no special expertise when it comes to knowing what gender is or ought to be. They can only describe the way various people view their own gender.

Rational discrimination is what we do all day every day. It's the plain definition of "discrimination." We discriminate between male and female when we decide that one person is a male and another is a female, or that one person is not a female and another is not a male. That clearly affects somebody who identifies as "trans."

The statement from the APA pretty clearly implies what I said. The only other possibility is that they're describing possible views, and not giving their own definitive views. How else would you interpret them saying that "the only significant problem" is access to resources that will allow a person "free expression of their gender"... and to "minimize discrimination"?

2. You're begging the question in the same way they are by leaving the body completely out of the discussion. The "ideal self" just turns out to be whatever the person's mind subjectively want to identify as, so there's clearly a dissonance between the mind and the body. If they're saying that the "trans" person doesn't find their gender distressing, then what they aren't saying is that they find their bodies distressing. Otherwise, why change them? Oh, because of discrimination.

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To your first two sentences...


Apr 20, 2016, 5:49 PM

That's a pretty broad assertion. What are you including in that list of "no right to affirmation or accommodation...for other people to assist them in doing whatever they want?" You probably would include sex changes in that category, yet that's a procedure that often is deemed a "last resort" type of treatment to save a person's life. What other treatments for mental illnesses or to save a person's life that also affect a person's body would you be willing to disregard? Could the deaf be allowed to get cochlear implants?

1. So who dictates society's view of gender? If not the people within it or the individual persons that make up society? How would rational discrimination discriminate Klinefelter syndrome?

As for APA's statement, my answer before still covers your question.

2. I'm not begging anything. It seems you are ignoring the clear evidence in front of you that Transgender people HIGHLY value their body AND they value their MIND/Self. Having a "dissonance" would be evidence that there is an unbalance between two entities that as such, should have balance. More to the point, this imbalance shows how important the relationship is between the mind and body and why Transgender persons value both so highly. Also, your use of the word "subjectively" as a negative makes no sense. It's not as if a person could objectively identify themselves.

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All based on the myth of autonomy


Apr 21, 2016, 3:59 PM

Your last sentence, I think, encapsulates the problem: people want to be able to "identify" themselves, but to self-identify always means to be the source of your own authority. Subjectivity isn't negative, per se, but it becomes a problem when it's the source of authority. So if you self-identify in some way or another, I can ask why I should care, or whether you have any evidence (intelligible to me) other than your assertion. You end up with arguments for a right to recognition of subjective identities versus demands for objective arguments for why your subjective identification should compel me (and other people) to go along with whatever you say. If you want to claim that people should just be given recognition for whatever they identify as, then you're claiming that people just are whatever they say they are- people are autonomous self creators. But, in that case, your only real public reason for recognition is that people need it to feel nice/ esteemed as whatever they identify as. The presentation of any objective evidence is offensive to the right to recognition, since it denies people's autonomy.

I'm still not quite sure where you're coming from in (2). You seem to be saying that the body is important, but only inasmuch as it can cause someone discomfort if it conflicts with what somebody wants it to be. That's what's implicit in the APA's statement: if somebody's gender identity conflicts with their body, but their gender identity doesn't cause them discomfort; and it's determined that surgery to make their body look more like their preferred gender; then there must have been some discomfort present, since no treatment would be needed otherwise. But since we know that their discomfort isn't from their gender identity, then it must either be from their body being "wrong" or from discrimination. The APA completely leaves out the body option (probably because trans people want to avoid identifying any body as being naturally male or female), and says that the only real obstacle is a social one- people just need to treat the trans person according to whatever they identify as. Problem solved. What you seem to be saying at least acknowledges that the body is part of the problem, but you locate the problem entirely in the body which must be changed to look more like the person's subjective identity. Either way, the body is secondary and malleable.

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Re: I don't think gender theorists would accept that


Apr 20, 2016, 4:10 PM [ in reply to I don't think gender theorists would accept that ]

Do all Transgenders want to have a sex change op?

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You'd have to think "no"


Apr 20, 2016, 4:23 PM

Unless you're just defining "transgender" as someone who's had a "sex-change" operation.

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As I understand it, No.


Apr 20, 2016, 4:26 PM [ in reply to Re: I don't think gender theorists would accept that ]

I've only read that the procedure is limited to cases where the patient is depressed to the point of suicide and all other treatments have failed or aren't helping. Often, opponents of transgenders will point to the high suicide rate of sex change patients, but they leave out the context that these are usually the most at risk patients for suicide pre and post operation. As with any patient with severe depression, long-term counseling is an important resource that must be made available and followed by a patient and often in the case of sex change patients, it's not.

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a person, who is of a gender


Apr 20, 2016, 2:18 PM [ in reply to What actually is a "transgender" person? ]

And really, really, really likes the 1982 Trans Am

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i wake up every morning feeling like I'm 80+ Yrs old


Apr 20, 2016, 2:16 PM

I WANT MY SOCIAL SECURITY CHECK NOW!!!!!

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Re: This Transgender Debate Got Me Thinkin


Apr 22, 2016, 10:27 PM

When I read the title I was so happy that you were finally thinking...and then I read your post and realized it was just gas.

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What if I just tuck my sack back, can I use the wimmins


Apr 22, 2016, 10:39 PM

bathroom then?

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