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All-In [28802]
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Just got the call from my dad I've been dreading
Jan 4, 2017, 8:50 AM
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My mom passed away overnight after an over 2 year battle with melanoma. She seemed pretty healthy right up until a few months ago, then things went rapidly downhill. She was in the hospital for the last three weeks heading into Christmas, then was finally released to hospice last Thursday. Even then, she didn't seem to be doing that badly, but I guess the blood transfusions she was being given at the hospital were keeping her alive. She was 58. Melanoma sucks.
For those of you who are praying folks, please pray especially for my dad. I don't think he ever imagined he'd be in this situation at this point in his life, and he's always been a family man first.
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All-In [45047]
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That sucks man, thoughts and prayers to you and your family.***
Jan 4, 2017, 8:52 AM
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Heisman Winner [119597]
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T's and P's to you and family!***
Jan 4, 2017, 8:54 AM
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All-In [49153]
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Prayers for all. Sorry to hear.***
Jan 4, 2017, 8:55 AM
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Legend [17753]
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Sorry Cam. Your dad and family are in my thoughts.***
Jan 4, 2017, 8:56 AM
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All-In [31863]
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Sorry to hear this Cam. Condolences to you and your family.***
Jan 4, 2017, 8:57 AM
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Heisman Winner [137807]
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Whoa. Really sorry to hear that.
Jan 4, 2017, 8:59 AM
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Unfortunately...I know those feels way too well, since my mom passed away from melanoma right before Christmas two years ago at 65. I know we joust in the lounge a good bit, but I like to believe we're all decent people at the end of the day. Family and such. Shoot me a tmell if you want any additional advice or input I might be able to offer, particularly on your dad. My dad is the most stoic guy you'll ever meet, but he misses mom something fierce even if he doesn't talk about it very often. I do my best to keep him busy and moving forward, even if Ineligible User thinks certificates of authenticity are stupid.
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All-In [45047]
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I haven't met a junger IRL that I didn't find to be a decent
Jan 4, 2017, 9:07 AM
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person.
And I've met TXTF!
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Heisman Winner [137807]
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I could have sworn you had met crulez08.***
Jan 4, 2017, 9:11 AM
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All-In [45047]
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Thanks for the reminder. All but 1 of the jungers I've met
Jan 4, 2017, 9:13 AM
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IRL are decent people.
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All-In [28802]
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Thanks. I do really appreciate it.
Jan 4, 2017, 9:10 AM
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I'm still a little bit in shock, I guess. And trying to deal with how to take care of what I can while I live pretty far away. At least my little brother still lives in the same area as my dad.
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Heisman Winner [119597]
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How is your dad's health?
Jan 4, 2017, 9:04 AM
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My dad contracted melanoma on bottom of one foot (Strange) and was able to eliminate it thanks to docs at Duke. He passed away less than 10yrs later from parkinsons. Take care of dad!
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All-In [28802]
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He's totally healthy, but so was she two years ago***
Jan 4, 2017, 9:09 AM
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110%er [9785]
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sorry for your loss
Jan 4, 2017, 9:19 AM
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Prayers for you, your Dad and family.
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Oculus Spirit [79401]
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Hate to hear, I know how easy it is to take their health for
Jan 4, 2017, 9:22 AM
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granted, even when they are sick.
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Re: Just got the call from my dad I've been dreading
Jan 4, 2017, 9:33 AM
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Sorry to hear this. Your family is in my thoughts.
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Heisman Winner [135504]
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Really sorry to hear this, my friend.
Jan 4, 2017, 9:39 AM
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You and your family are in my thoughts today.
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Heisman Winner [105478]
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Sorry to hear that, really sucks.***
Jan 4, 2017, 9:40 AM
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Orange Blooded [3924]
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prayers up for you, dad, and family***
Jan 4, 2017, 9:46 AM
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Re: Just got the call from my dad I've been dreading
Jan 4, 2017, 9:54 AM
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Sorry for your loss. Prayers for sure...
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Oculus Spirit [78831]
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that sucks
Jan 4, 2017, 9:57 AM
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hang in there. Sorry for your loss
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CU Medallion [55664]
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My sincere condolences. Ts&Ps to you and yours.***
Jan 4, 2017, 9:59 AM
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All-TigerNet [11145]
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Sorry for your loss.
Jan 4, 2017, 10:02 AM
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Our family will keep yours in our prayers.
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All-In [38114]
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Awful .... thoughts and prayers to you and your family.***
Jan 4, 2017, 10:04 AM
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110%er [8243]
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I'm truly sorry to hear that Cam.***
Jan 4, 2017, 10:07 AM
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Sorry to hear. Ts and Ps for sure.***
Jan 4, 2017, 10:21 AM
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So sorry...was way too young.***
Jan 4, 2017, 10:26 AM
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Legend [18007]
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That's awful. I'm so sorry.
Jan 4, 2017, 10:35 AM
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#### cancer.
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Re: Just got the call from my dad I've been dreading
Jan 4, 2017, 10:36 AM
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I am also waiting/dreading that same call as well.
Prayers for you, your dad and family
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sorry for your loss
Jan 4, 2017, 10:58 AM
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so can i take those tampa tix off your hands?
just jounging, my mom passed away 8 years ago at 55, it ain't fun and time does actually make it better, there is nothing anyway can say or do to make it feel any better, so i figured a good ole fashioned classless t-net post would help you out with a smile today
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All-In [28802]
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Thanks, man
Jan 4, 2017, 11:01 AM
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I'm sure losing your mom that young was tough, too.
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CU Medallion [50635]
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so sorry cam prayers for the fam***
Jan 4, 2017, 11:04 AM
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110%er [5508]
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Sorry to hear that***
Jan 4, 2017, 11:10 AM
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