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All-TigerNet [14282]
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Little league problems
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May 17, 2023, 10:55 AM
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We had to remove a kid from our dugout last night and send him home. He's been a behavior issue all year, but we've been patient. Last night we had a lightning delay. He refused to listen to anything any of us coaches told him to do, he told me to shut up, told another coach to shut up, and so we had a talk with his mom and hope the issue is fixed.
The game starts and he asks me if he can go to the bathroom. I say yes (our whole team must have the smallest bladders in the world because at least 5 kids have to go every game). Well, I get back in the dugout after the inning and another coach informs me and our head coach that the kid just went behind the dugout and pissed on the tree (in wide open view of everyone). So the other coach told him that wasn't acceptable and he threw his bat and helmet and told him to shut up.
Call his mom and tell her to get him because he's done for the night for the reasons above. Now, this morning, she's texting our head coach and claiming racist, that we won't let him play positions like every other player, we won't let him pitch, he always bats last, and now she's been removed from the groupme (all of which are untrue).
I'm glad I'm not head coach, I couldn't deal with this crap.
Also, we are one game away from the Championship coming out of the loser's bracket. Been fun other than this family.
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tldr
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May 17, 2023, 10:56 AM
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kid got sent home because he peed on a tree during the game and now we're racist
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Koreans, amirite??????
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May 17, 2023, 11:03 AM
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-bengaline
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dunno. kid sounds europee'n.***
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May 17, 2023, 11:07 AM
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I never had a behavior/parent problem quite like that but
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May 17, 2023, 11:11 AM
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you could try this for the kid and the mom...
https://www.3chi.com/
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Mr. Tig
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May 17, 2023, 2:12 PM
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From the mom's reaction at least you know where
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May 17, 2023, 11:48 AM
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the behavior problems are coming from.
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I hate it for the kid. He doesn't have a choice in the matte
May 17, 2023, 11:50 AM
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R. We've been patient with him all year, because he's better off with us than at home. They are known around the league for this and so many other coaches have tried to help too. It sucks for the kid.
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Not trying to play the Bengaline card here, but it really
May 17, 2023, 11:53 AM
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irks me she tried to play the race card after a kid is peeing in public and telling adults to shut up.
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See my reply above.
May 17, 2023, 11:54 AM
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The kid is behind the 8ball and it really isn't his fault.
Heck, his Mom was probably the same. Generational issues like this are heartbreaking and hard to break out of.
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Bet he plays soccer…***
May 17, 2023, 11:56 AM
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Friend of mine and I have thought about getting back into
May 17, 2023, 1:42 PM
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coaching baseball, his kid pitching at a D1 school right now, but when he hangs up his cleats we may.
Except for stuff like this
Had a parent argue with us in coach's pitch why we wouldn't let his kid play third. Couldn't come to grips that it was a safety thing, because a line drive would not go well with this player.
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Youth sports brings out the absolute worst in parents
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May 17, 2023, 2:11 PM
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Been coaching for almost 20 years now, and I took a short break and I realized it's not going away. Had a mom shoot me a nasty gram last season because one player told her daughter to "suck it up" and the offended player responded by crying and said she "can't play no more."
The kids take all of their cues from mom (most likely) but there is the occasional wild eyed dad. None f them have any understanding of where their kid is in relation to objective input, which is all I can offer them.
I saw that SCYS (South Carolina Youth Soccer) has a zero-tolerance policy this coming year for spectators yelling at refs. I am hoping it might run out some of those bad actors.
Just wait until high school. It's worse
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You should make a youtube channel videoing your interactions
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May 17, 2023, 2:18 PM
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with ###### parents, you know it would be a hit. You could even bait them into confrontations by calling them skanky hoars, phags, etc. Not only could it potentially give you a new revenue stream, it would give you a process to eliminate assshole parents you didn't want to deal with.
Frankly, I'm looking forward to my interactions with these people when my kids get a little older, but I like a good confrontation too.
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Mom tells you all you need to know
May 17, 2023, 2:14 PM
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She enables his behavior by not holding him accountable. Seems to happen a lot nowadays.
If I had pissed on a tree in front of the crowd in the middle of a Little League game (after probably another embarrassing strikeout), the audience woulda seen my ### next... as it got whupped by a parent.
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This surprises no one. Parents are awful.
May 17, 2023, 2:15 PM
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If you let your kid face consequences you are automatically in the top 4% of parents.
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Re: This surprises no one. Parents are awful.
May 17, 2023, 2:28 PM
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I don't give a dammnn if my kid likes me or not. I love them to death, but F'em.
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It's moved beyond helicopter parents
May 17, 2023, 2:32 PM
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now the majority are lawnmower parents. They are going to mow down anything that stands between Jayydyn and his dreams.
My baby would never do anything wrong ever and it's all your fault.
Then me and MauldinT® get them and it's "I can't do anything with them"
I ####### hate people.
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Man, coaching high school ball is rough, huh?***
May 17, 2023, 2:37 PM
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You should ask TigerManac
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May 17, 2023, 9:07 PM
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That's really the only option
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