A few years ago, I was at my son high school practice. Two twin brohters fought with each other during football practice. An assist coach stated that because of their attitude and action, that they wouldn't mount to nothing and was going to end up in prison anyway. Both brothers finished their high school career. Both graduated from high school and both brothers attended and finished at different division I colleges. Also they are doing quite well now. Some time it good to leave your comfort zone. Or your present environment. It ok to bring a little attitude and toughness to the field and game.