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Some Simple Rules to Live by:

Aug 13, 2021, 9:47 AM

1. Leave people alone.

2. Mind your own business.

3. Nobody likes a tattle-tail.

Ryanadidas, is there story behind this post?

Why yes. Yes there is.

Can I hear it?

Well twist my arm...

SarahAdidas has been a tattle-tail her whole life. It's her worst trait. By far. She has this burning desire to not let people get away with anything. Regardless if it has any effect on her or not. I take rules and laws with a grade of slaw, so it's an odd combination to say the least...

Yesterday, she sees a viral facebook post where a volunteer at a local hospital describes a small child patient that is probably going to die from a choking hazard that was most likely avoidable. She doesn't give a name, but it's a fairly small town and she gave the age and a description of the illness. The post starts circulating around the webs.

Instead of ignoring it, Sarahadidas DM's the woman and says something like "hey, please consider taking that post down. It's a HIPO violation and more importantly that poor mother could very well lose her child and then find out that she's being shamed in a viral facebook post." The woman responds by telling Sarahadidas to eff off.

Does Sarahadidas let it go... not for a second. She calls HR at this woman's hospital HR and explains the issue. Furthermore, HR asks Sarahadidas if they can use screen shots of her DMs when they confront the woman.... she clearly should have said, "no, please don't." In her attempt to really bury this woman, she agrees. HR probably rakes the volunteer woman over the coals and fires her (From her unpaid volunteer job). Woman DM's wife and says something to the effect of "I know who you are and where you live." Now wife is freaked out.

If only she would have listened to my sage-like rules to live by, we wouldn't be dealing with this crap.

Now I'm going to end up sleeping on the roof of my house with a rifle like a Korean Storekeeper during the Rodney King riots.

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Yep.

Her decision tree looked like this:

1. This woman's post is unethical and could potentially be devastating for that mother. What should I do?
1a. ignore it
1b. take action*****

2. So I've decided to take action... so far that's not necessarily a bad thing. What should I do?
2a. Go to her HR department and put her on blast
2b. Send her a DM explaining my concerns and ask her to consider removing it*******

3. So I send her a DM. Still probably the right thing to do. She does not take the DM well.
Instead of removing it, she decides to tell me to eff off. How should I proceed?
3a. Cut my losses, and move along. Oh well I tried.
3b. Go thermo-nuclear and contact her HR so they can remove the post and prove my point. Yea, that'll show her! Also, I don't feel too bad b/c she's an unpaid volunteer... not like it's livlihood. *****

4. I contact her HR. They are very appreciative. I feel good because that poor mother won't have to deal with this viral post while trying to possibly bury her child. One more step, HR asks me if it's okay if they basically tell the woman that I'm behind this, instead of leaving it as a mystery. What do I do?
4a. Use common sense and ask to have my name left out of it because of potential retribution for me, my children, or my super hunky bigdicked husband.
4b. Let them use my name so that woman knows I got the last laugh. Really spike the ball in her face. *****

I fully understand her first 2 decisions. The third one I don't agree with, but it's somewhat defensible because she's passionate about the nursing field and felt like this was about patient advocacy. Also, the woman wasn't paid, so maybe it's not a huge deal if they reprimand her or fire her. The 4th decision is pure stupidity.

Some Simple Rules to Live by:

Re: Some Simple Rules to Live by:

Cotdammit, RyanAids, where are the tiddie pics?***

I. WANT. TO. SEE. FAT. BEEFERS. NOW.***

Re: Some Simple Rules to Live by:

the volunteer is a lesbian?

I don't remember saying that. She's a 75 year old woman

got it from "Woman DM's wife"***

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Sounds like one of those "when keeping it real goes wrong"

Yup, especially on the BuddyBook

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4a

WANG (C)HUNG

yea. Exactlly.

It's amazing how...

I know.

take videos

CATFIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!***

Lutz. HIPO, HIPAA, W G A F

If she knows who your wife is and where y'all live

It's a 75 year old lady who volunteers(ed) at the hospital

Re: Ryanadidas in his new life....

Sounds like SaraAdidas might be in need

Pics of tattles tail not loading

If you need some backup

What kind of TERRIBLE HR rep wants to confront someone

I will.

You should also withhold seggs from her

Dude I will NEVER violate any Hippo

***UPDATE***

Yeah but we know she wont' listen to you. She will listen to

Hey, quick question.

I need to keep FB so that I can keep tracks of whatever

If it weren't for facebook I would have never been able to

You still have your foresight?

Sarahadidas is now officially a

yup.

This would have gone away before it even started if you'd

I threaten my kids on a daily basis.

Re: ***UPDATE***

4. Stay off the interwebs***

You didn't by chance just lose your volunteering gig at the

75. I hope that lady's old man isn't 'Nam crazy.

What's that at the edge of the field?

While your wife certainly needs to face some consequences

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